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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 22. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 6, 2013 at 8:41am

Good morning to all of you.  Yes, it's grey and gloomy here.  I didn't get enough sleep and now I'm trying to wake myself via some coffee.  I also have a doctor's appointment this morning.  My blood pressure is going to be through the roof from the caffeine. 

Comment by booklover on August 6, 2013 at 7:20am

Hi Ruth!  Can you believe she texted my son AGAIN last night, and he went out with her AGAIN, and she told him she liked him, but didn't want a boyfriend right now, AGAIN!  GEEZUS!!!  You would think a 19-year old would learn his lesson by now.  He says he has.  He doesn't have a lot of experience with "women."  I hope he's learning how NOT to be treated at least!

I FEEL old Ruth!  I AM going to be an old cat lady.  That's fine by me!!!

Off to Madison to the gastroenterologist.  Ugh.  It's a rainy Tuesday here. 

Hugs back Ruth & All!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 6, 2013 at 1:05am

booklover your description of your son's pretty date reminds me of a comedy skit. The guy is talking to his shrink about his relationship with his girlfriend. She's gorgeous, the sex is great, but she keeps doing things like set his couch on fire and total his car. You don't like any kind of seafood? I can hardly imagine that.

When you say,"I also like and love my cats and dog more than I like most people." That reminds me of a saying. You know you're old when you really really really love your cat. I qualify for that.

Joan, I think the Redford photo doesn't do him justice. B&W and every wrinkle is enhanced. Brigitte Bardot, I hope I look that good at 79. The photo of Jack Nicholson also looks like the worst shot one could take, with the food and sour expression. I'm sure if he were in a shirt and smiling he'd look far more likeable.

Thanks for Burrito cat, Steph. It's good to hear from you.

Great lovecat gif sk8eycat, thanks. When I sent it to my husband he said, "Is that what we'd do if we had tails?"

Hugs to all!

Comment by booklover on August 5, 2013 at 10:28am

You are right Chris.  My son has dated a really pretty girl, but she keeps treating him badly, and other people have told him she is nasty to them.  I told him to look for a girl he is attracted to that has other things going for her, like being NICE, etc.  Sometimes someone who is considered beautiful has attributes that make them ugly, like being a mean person, etc.

You still have a heatwave Chris?!  Ugh!  It is raining and cool here.  I'll send it your way!

Comment by Plinius on August 5, 2013 at 10:07am

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? I see a lot of elder women I love to look at - but don't ask me about handsome. For me handsome is such an intricate mix of personality and shape that I never know what it is.

And now I'll shut down the pc again, before the poor thing crashes again from the heat.

Waving to all of you!

Comment by booklover on August 5, 2013 at 9:23am

Joan, that's what my Mom said.  Many men get even more handsome as they age.  She said Paul Newman did. :)  Robert Redford didn't.  Genes and lifestyle I guess?

Steph, so happy to see you on here! 

Joan, being out on the ocean alone doesn't sound fun to me either!  I am terrified of the ocean.  I don't know why!  I always have been.  I love to be near it, or walk on the beach up to my ankles, even went on a Disney Cruise when my kids were 4 & 7 and that didn't bother me.  But the thought of being under the water makes me shudder.  I wouldn't go snorkeling when we went to Key West.  I don't like any type of seafood either.  Nothing bad ever happened to me regarding oceans, I just don't like them.  Same for lakes and rivers.  I know, weird.  BTW, I LOVE to swim, just in chlorinated pools though. lol.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2013 at 12:45am

Ha! I found it!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2013 at 12:39am

Oh, wow!  That movie looks scary!  I've only been on the ocean (in a 30' cabin cruiser...NOT alone) once, and I didn't like it at all.

Redford looks a helluva lot better than Nicholson, and I think it's interesting that he hasn't had any plastic surgery.  He looks real.  Nicholson looks like Jabba the Hutt.

Has anyone else in here read the book about an older man who sailed around the world solo in a boat about that size back in the '60s (I think)? I've forgotten the title, but the boat was named the Gypsy Moth.  He had some scary times, but he made it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 10:57pm

Robert Redford, 77 years old. Many men grow more handsome with age. I wonder what happened? Did he live a hard life? 

Jack Nicholson lost some of his charm as well, 76 years old

Brigitte Bardot, 79 years old 

Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:18pm

 

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