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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Megan S. M. on April 30, 2013 at 9:14pm

Haha I love all the cat pics!

I think I'll just put up a "Beware of Atheist" sign on my door, or maybe just Skeptic.. Atheist might get my house egged. But that should stop any BS sharers :p

Debra,

"If students want to become religious, spiritual or non-religious when they are older than that is fine.  Manipulating a child into believing what you believe against their own wishes is wrong.  Teach a child how to think, not what to think."

I totally agree with that statement.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 8:41pm

Felaine, thanks for the links to the tracts.  I should order some and pass them out on my way to work to the leaches who stand at the train station passing out "The Watchtower" magazine and their tracts.   

Regarding the Orange County story, it makes my blood boil every time I hear stories about religious groups wanting to pass out bibles at schools.  These religious people are as disgusting and pervasive as a roach infestation.  At least the FFRF is countering the attack with our own literature. 

Still.....I can't believe that the school district censored some of our material.  How to fix the problem:  keep the schools as an environment for learning (not religious recruiting) and the whole problem is solved. 

Why do we have to keep fighting these battles and putting out these continuous fires?  It's like a christian version of Whack-A-Mole.  I just want to pull my hair out.     

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:49pm

Carl, you can get packets of "non-tracts" to hand out to the doorbell-ringers from  https://ffrf.org/shop/nontracts  They are $4 per dozen, or a sample pack of one each for the same price, and you don't have to be a member.

One of  my faves is "Cookie-Cutter Christs," a collection of short descriptions of earlier god-myths that are almost identical to the stories in the gospels.

And this is an interesting news item that I just received:

https://ffrf.org/news/news-releases/item/17625-atheist-literature-t...

I hope they open up some minds and/or encourage kids who are closeted non-believers to hang onto their disbelief in the buybull belt.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:32pm

Grinning Cat, a long time ago, when I first went online, I got in touch with a sweet couple who owned a catnip plantation (Catnip Cafe) on the Fraser River, just outside of Vancouver, B.C.  In addition to selling baggies of catnip for cats, they carried a  line of catnip teas for humans, and catnip-laced chocolates.  Verrrrry tasty!  But, a couple of years after I "met" them, they sold the business, and moved into town to raise children. 

*sigh* I really wanted to take the train to Seattle, and then transfer to Vancouver, and meet them...one set of parents owned a cozy-looking B&B in the area, too.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2013 at 5:34pm

It didn't take me long to realize that one of my self-satisfying labels to the no religion sign would be taken by the religious as an excuse to ring the bell, because they obviously were not crazy, deluded or preaching BS.

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:03pm

Booklover I love that dog and cat pic.

How is everyone?

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:01pm

I hope the sign works Flying Atheist.

I love the cartoon Ian.

Grinning Cat - I really like that LOLcat.

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:00pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2013 at 3:52pm

I saved your NOthump sign Flying A.  I may put one on my door.  

I've even been considering labeling it with "NO thumping", or "NO Wakaloons", or "NO crazy people", or "NO fairy stories", or NO reality challenged proselytizers".  But you mentioned bullshit, so I'm thinking a good label would be "NO BS" or "NO BULLSHIT".

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 2:51pm

I know damn well that I don't have to listen to door-to-door proselytizers or take any of their literature.  I totally resent that fact that they are intruding into my personal time and space with their insane bullshit while I'm eating, napping, doing chores, watching a movie, or just chilling around the house in any degree of dress or undress.  And I very sternly tell them so.  The only times I say anything more is if there are any young adults with them......high school or college age.  I'll address them and tell them not to believe the lies they're being told, to think for themselves and to use the internet to look at videos on TheThinkingAtheist.com.  And I'll say, "Remember that!  The Thinking Atheist dot com!"     

 

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