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Comment by booklover on April 19, 2013 at 9:43pm
Felaine, so glad your friend is fine and Hairy Jerry is feeling okay. :) Joan, I am glad you are feeling better too! I have the house to myself tonight,with the exception of 3 cats and an old dog.:) Tomorrow I will be 46. Not very exciting! It is also Hitlers birthday and National Pot- Smoking Day (apparently 4/20 has some meaning that I don't know about!) ha ha. Have a good weekend Friends!~Melinda
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 9:33pm

Bandages off, an incredibly ugly bruise and no pain. I can handle that just fine. Getting some ambition back ... slowly. I am enjoying sleeping through these cold windy days. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 8:42pm
sk8eycat, I'm very sorry about your friend's illness and your "Brain Fog". Not a good week for you. With Hairy Jerry more comfortable, you can enjoy his company and treasure your time together. "Think Banned Thoughts" looks like an interesting site. Take good care of yourself.
Comment by Patricia on April 19, 2013 at 7:53pm

Glad the outcome was positive, Sk8ey!!!

Give H.J. a scritch for me, ok?

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2013 at 7:00pm

I have to 'splain something.  I'm still home, but have been in sort of what Loren calls Brain Fog for several days.  I'll try to catch up with all the posts I've misssed, but obviously I am NOT cat-sitting for my computerless friend.

She called me Sunday to tell me she'd been sick all weekend, had cancelled the first part of her travel plans, and would be leaving on Thursday instead. Okay.  I tried calling her Tuesday to find out what time she wanted to pick me up Wednesday night...so I would be packed and ready.  Got her voice mail; left a message.  No call back. Called twice more; same thing.  Began to worry. Called 3 more times starting Wednesday morning; voice mail, no call back. I knew something was wrong, and went into panic mode.  By 7PM I was imagining her collapsed on the floor, and unable to reach a phone.  I was ready to call 911 when she did call me...she'd just been released from hospital...been in since Monday...almost died from dehydration and ventricular fibrilation.

THAT's when I went into Fog Mode.  I've slept more in the past day and a half than I had since Sunday.  From relief. I'm selfish.  I would hate to lose her; she's been a fabulous friend for more than 30 years...and taught me to be a better cook.

Other news: The Prednisone seems to be helping Hairy Jerry a little bit; he's more active, and vocal, is ravenous sometimes, and drinking a lot of water...which are all good signs.  But, of course, I'm not expecting a cure.  Just knowing that he's more comfortable is enough.

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Now, I want to turn you all on to a Blog called "Think Banned Thoughts."  I don't know if the writer/blogger is an atheist or not, but I don't care. I like what she has to say, and I've replied to some of her posts.  (Actually, she thinks DEEP thoughts.) 

http://thinkbannedthoughts.wordpress.com/author/thinkbannedthoughts/

 

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on April 19, 2013 at 6:59pm
Comment by booklover on April 19, 2013 at 5:25pm

Joan, you have been a wonderful Mom!  Your children are so lucky to have you!  I'm sorry that happened to your son.  I will always have an open-door policy as well.  My kids are my life, and I can't help feeling that way.  I am already on meds for my anxiety about them!  I see more prescriptions in the near future... LOL   Thank you for your wisdom!  I appreciate you!!!~ Melinda

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 5:14pm

Melina, I know what you mean. When is love good for a child, and when is love not enough? I think every loving parent goes through this phase. I visioned a narrow walk with high fences, and I had to protect them from dashing into the street and getting run over. As they got older the walk became a street and I had to protect them from killing themselves and others when they started to drive. A little older, a little more freedom, and I had to guide them so they wouldn't have unwanted pregnancies. Then I had to open my controlling hand and let them fly.

I don't know if that gives you any help. We did have a revolving door when they moved back in, moved away, and move back in again. I thought the revolving door would never stop swinging. Now it has, they are all 49 years old, and two have exceptionally fine families. My older son took a much harder path, including alcohol abuse, a failed marriage with a fine woman, and then a brain injury that left him disabled. That is the risk a mother takes when having children. I do not know what I could have done to prevent his life-journey. By remaining flexible, keeping lines of communication open, confronting when necessary, supporting when needed, setting values that make sense to you without imposing them on a child, sets the stage for healthy, productive living. 

My most sincere best to you and your family. May you hear each other and explore for mutual ground. You and your husband provide the kind of love that does not smother, and yet empowers them to grow to be who they are, using their internal guide. 

Comment by booklover on April 19, 2013 at 4:34pm

Ian, I love the monkey grooming the cat. :)  The cat just expects it, like "yep, everyone caters to me."

Going to see my daughter at school tomorrow with my Mom and my Son.  My daughter is going to drive me nuts!  She has some decisions to make, some of which involve big money which would have to come from us or my Mom.  She needs to understand how the real world works.  Right now she's been sheltered, literally, by us, and will continue to be, but feels grown-up at 21 in an apt. that is totally paid-for by my husband, etc. but doesn't want to "talk about stuff" with us, like we are prying.  Well, if involves our money, we have a right to know what is going on with her plans/life, not to mention the fact that we love her more than life itself and would love to know things.  Not asking personal stuff here, just her plans! Aaaarrrggghhhhhhhhh! :)

Comment by Patricia on April 19, 2013 at 1:50pm

Cross species communication!

 

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