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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 21. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Joseph Corder on June 9, 2013 at 12:04pm

Who gets to bring up the rear?!!! LOL

Comment by Ian Mason on June 9, 2013 at 12:03pm

Yassos, dear friends. Here's a "postcard" from my hols.

Crete; the place where the Minoan civilisation began. Main site, Knossos, excavated and partly restored by Sir Arthur Evans.

Comment by Joseph Corder on June 9, 2013 at 12:02pm

Last one in is a rotten egg!!!

Comment by sk8eycat on June 9, 2013 at 3:29am

Another "Moon River." One of the very first jokes I was sent in 2001 when I first went online.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 9, 2013 at 3:24am

Moon River....?

Comment by sk8eycat on June 9, 2013 at 3:09am

I don't know much about my mother's ancestors, but I do know that some of Dad's ancestors were younger sons who would not inherit, so they took a chance on the colonies.  One went  south, and the other stayed in New England (Dad was descended from the New Englander).  The Southerner was the ancestor of a Confederate general...when I was touring with Holiday, I kept running into my last name all over the place.

Some of Mother's ancestors stood on the shore of their native land, watching the Europeans sailing in...with their technology, weapons, and diseases...saying "There goes the neighborhood."

Or something like that.

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The good news is that polls show that the percentage of adult non-believers in the USA is rising rapidly, especially ammong college students. 30% - plus, now.  There is hope.

 

Comment by Plinius on June 9, 2013 at 1:44am

Once I began to piece this kind of information together, I knew that violence, oppression, domination were a very clear and a real part of my cultural heritage. I wondered if I could break the cycles of violence in my descendants. 

That is a very big thing - to try and break the cycles of violence in your descendants - but also a very brave choice. I think you'll never know if you succeeded. But you've got wonderful children!

How are you feeling today?

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 9, 2013 at 1:29am

Chris, maybe we could have a group Moon at NSA.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 9, 2013 at 1:28am

Chris, my ancestors left Plymouth, England because they were being persecuted by the Church of England (or some religious body)  for Leiden, Holland, and found it too liberal for their tastes. My ancestor purchased passage for herself and 10 year old son by agreeing to go to the Plymouth colon to be "breed stock." She fulfilled her agreement, had a daughter in Plymouth, and I am descended from her. 

I wonder what options were open for her in 1632? Not much! Later generations were in Salem, Mass. and were accusers of witches. When I started my quest, I hoped to fine some family traditions with which I could feel a pride. Alas, my ancestors, in addition to accusing children and adults of being witches, also participated in cutting off noses of Quakers who refused to submit to their rule.

Once I began to piece this kind of information together, I knew that violence, oppression, domination were a very clear and a real part of my cultural heritage. I wondered if I could break the cycles of violence in my descendants. 

And yes, they did breed like vermin. 

Comment by Plinius on June 9, 2013 at 12:50am

 that the U.S. is the most religious nation on earth!!! 

We waved good-bye to a lot of them; Pilgrim Fathers, Mennonites, Hernhutters, and so on, but there are Always enough left - they multiply like pests. And that makes me think what effect they have on natural selection....  

 

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