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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan 15 hours ago. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat on Friday. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 1, 2013 at 12:34pm

Group Hug for sk8eycat....

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 1, 2013 at 12:30pm

Felaine, relax and make yourself a Bloody Mary.  (After you see the MD.)

Comment by sk8eycat on July 1, 2013 at 12:05pm

Oh, my friends!  Last night I wrote an eloquent (I thought) thank you for all your kind words and sensible advice, and my effing computer froze up before I could click "Add Comment."  When I was able to get back  in here, it was gone.  Naturally.  So I said a few dirty words and went to bed.

Yesterday was NOT my day.

I'm here, I'm all right, and I'm still carefully trying to get the rest of the red stuff out of my hair without causing more damage.  I just talked to my MD, and she chewed me out, too, for not going to the ER....

You all are right, and I was wrong...shrugs...I haven't been very intelligent lately.

Anyroad, I wish there was some way I could hug you all...I appreciate every one of you SO MUCH!

And Joan, please send some of that cold rainy weather down here!  It's been in the triple digits for almost a week.  MUCH too early....whatever happened to "June Gloom" in SoCal?

(I'm hoping that the hills aren't so dry that the city has to cancel the annual fireworks show...or move it to one of the high school football fields that we can't see from here.  I love those elaborate displays.  They're magic...I keep saying, "Wow!  How do they DO that?")

Cheers, and thanks again.  And I think I'll stop using "bloody" as a cuss word.  For a while anyway. *snicker*

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 1, 2013 at 11:49am

We have a little mom and pop hardware store that has been here as long as I. The clerks are all retired tradespeople and they help with all kinds of home repairs. Yesterday, I went with my tale of woe about the squirrels breaking the shoelace holding a bird feeder in the Blue Spruce. The clerk went right to the spot and handed me flexible wire coated with some substance.  PERFECT! 

Yes, Carl, I love watching them, even if I do have to engage my local hardware person to help me keep the thing in the tree. When I have more energy, I will make a birdfeeder that is not as pretty, but more durable. 

Mindy, your story of the terrible fall, and your daughter's reaction is priceless. One of those little pieces that delights even as it evokes compassion. I call this kind of story "Minddroppings;" I borrowed  it from Neil deGrasse Tyson. Just little vignettes, along the order of  Isaac Bashevis Singer.

I'm my garden for breakfast with the birds and squirrels. Cary woke me up early this morning so I could get outside in the cool air before heat builds up. Got quite a big of chores done out here and I am pooped. Tomorrow and the rest of the week I will be useless, after four hours of chemo. I'll use the time to do some writing. 

Felaine, how is your healing going? And your shower door? 

Hi Grinning Cat. Always a joy to see you grinning face. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on July 1, 2013 at 11:08am

Felaine, take care of yourself! I'm glad you're okay.

Mindy, thanks for the laugh with the black cat.

A button I have:  "I'm not superstitious -- it's bad luck."

(Neil deGrasse Tyson had some choice words on superstition: "I'm not worried about kids. I'm worried about grown-ups, okay? These are the ones who vote....")

Comment by booklover on July 1, 2013 at 9:47am

Glad you liked the black cat.  I thought we'd all appreciate the non-superstition. :)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 1, 2013 at 9:35am

I like that black cat, Mindy. Funny.  :)

Comment by booklover on July 1, 2013 at 8:22am

Awww, Dido! I have a black cat named Dale! lol

Comment by Plinius on July 1, 2013 at 7:19am

LOL booklover! Black cat crossing my path is Dido, wanting me to serve food.

Comment by booklover on July 1, 2013 at 7:10am

No superstition! lol

 

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