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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud 1 hour ago. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 17, 2013 at 11:27pm
Wow "'Ride of the Valkyries' rouses Caltech students for finals" should get the grey matter stimulated!
Comment by Loren Miller on June 17, 2013 at 10:55pm

Pardon my interruption here ... but I wanted to interject something truly beautiful ... something poetic, flowing and profound.  That something came from the pen of Maurice Ravel, and I truly believe it encompasses all the qualities I listed above:



What that is ... is Ravel's "Pavane pour un infante defunte."  It is among the most beautiful pieces of classical music that I am aware of ... and I invite you:

Please listen.  Please enjoy.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 17, 2013 at 8:05pm

Patricia, I had no idea you’d undergone such suffering and surgery. My spine has been degenerating more rapidly lately. Today my orthopedist prescribed sleeping in a back brace. Hopefully I’ll be able to use fewer Lidoderm patches to get to sleep. My pain is nothing compared to what you describe.*shudder* Doctors not taking your pain seriously, I hear you.

When it came to the point where I could not get off the floor, then I was classed as an 'emergency case' & got in within a week.

Your two year recovery does, however, also sound daunting.

Here's a zero calorie "box of sunshine".

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 17, 2013 at 7:22pm

How to fold a shirt in 20 seconds. I've been doing it wrong all of my life.

 

Comment by sk8eycat on June 17, 2013 at 4:18pm

More music...IF the link works

as Dan’s song about Rick Perry puts it, :

Get Off Your Knees and Get to Work”? 

 

(Piety is like garlic, a little goes a long way.)

Comment by Plinius on June 17, 2013 at 12:18pm

;-D   Nobody can resist strawberry ice cream!

Comment by Steph S. on June 17, 2013 at 11:34am

Comment by sk8eycat on June 17, 2013 at 3:08am

Oh, WOW!  I wanna skate to THAT!

Thanks.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 17, 2013 at 2:42am

I was once on a TU course at a place that used this as wake-up music: Sibelius: Karelia Suite - Intermezzo. I love it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XtIw5AkUEsE

Comment by Plinius on June 17, 2013 at 1:24am

Thanks for the link, Joan! I often use these exercises and most of the time they work well. But even so I'm getting shorter all the time; I lost about 6 cm. And the exercise, the painkillers and a little pampering calmed down the nerve and I'm almost back to normal again!

That is good news that you get a grip on your well-being through diet!

Take care of yourself, Ian, while taking care of others! It's hard when there is no comfort except friendship. I'll think of you.

 

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