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The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud on Sunday. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 24, 2015 at 2:20pm

Carl, I'm so sorry to hear of your latest bad news. Your attitude toward all this adversity is incredible, and it will see you through. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 24, 2015 at 2:06pm

Randy, I've never been a big sports fan, but one cannot escape  from admiring a true historic sports hero and gentleman like Ernie Banks.  There's a certain element of respect and honor of his natural talent that is sorely lacking from so many of the doped-up and hyper-physical athletes today.  

The Chicago Tribune has a very nice article about him which includes a short video. 

http://www.chicagotribune.com/sports/baseball/cubs/chi-ernie-banks-...

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 24, 2015 at 1:42pm

Thank you everyone for the big hugs and support. 

Patricia, deep down I'm not really surprised I have heart problems.  My father had a heart attack when he was 54 (he'll be 80 this year!) and his father died of a massive heart attack when he was in his 50's.  My grandmother had a heart condition and TIA strokes.  Heart disease runs rampant in my family.  With proper care, I know that I have a lot of life left in me.  I've seen it with my father. 

Joan, thank for sharing the Branford Marsalis video.  That is some awesome swinging jazz!  Loved it. 

Chris, I am feeling calm.  I'm normally a calm and easy-going person.  It's my personality.  I'm not going to say that I haven't been stressed out by what's happening, but I'm not getting all worked up about something I can't avoid.  To be honest, I'm looking forward to getting these surgeries completed so I can start to heal, feel better, and get my life back. 

 

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 24, 2015 at 1:27pm

Carl, hope you will recover well from those operations.  

Comment by Randall Smith on January 24, 2015 at 8:19am

Thanks for sharing your health situation, Carl. Here I am complaining about the pre-colonoscopy prep I had to endure, and then read your story. Have courage and fight the bad draw as hard as you can. Keep us informed.

Another piece of sad news from Chicago: Ernie Banks, the greatest Cub of all, died. 

Comment by Plinius on January 24, 2015 at 3:07am

You've got such a calm way of telling bad news, Carl! I do hope you feel as calm! Heartfelt wishes to you!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 24, 2015 at 1:24am

Carl,  such bad news! This is not good. Of course, I care so deeply about you and we will pull with you as you face the decisions and procedures ahead. I have no words that can comfort you or skill that can take away your health problems. All I can say is I care.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 23, 2015 at 11:15pm

Carl, You must have great courage and resolve to keep your chin up under these "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune". My hat off to you and a hug.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 23, 2015 at 10:59pm

Oh, Carl....I wanna hug you SO much!  Just think of me as RBG .... the  emotion is the same:

President Barack Obama hugs Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, on Capitol Hill in Washington, Tuesday, Jan. 20, 2015, before giving his State of the Union address before a joint session of Congress. (AP Photo/Mandel Ngan, Pool)

Comment by Patricia on January 23, 2015 at 10:24pm

Oh good grief Carl....whatever next?!

Rick says to tell you his heart is nearly all scar tissue & he's still here after 26 years. He can't have repair surgery because they can't cut away enough of the scar tissue just to leave more scar tissue which wouldn't heal anyway. This conclusion was 20 or so years ago. His only alternative is a transplant, but just not right now. He does everything he can to keep his mind elsewhere so he doesn't have to think about it 24/7.

 

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