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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Comment by Steph S. on June 8, 2013 at 10:24am

Ian - what a wonderful vacation picture. The weather looks beautiful.

So glad you had a great time and got back safely.

Comment by booklover on June 8, 2013 at 9:56am

Glad you're back Ian!  I hope you had a great time. :)  It's a beautiful Saturday morning here in Northern Illinois.  My son is down the street doggy-sitting a 14-year old Yellow Lab (who is mostly white now!). He spent the night there because he didn't want Ozzy the dog to be  alone all night. :)  My son would be perfectly content to just live with a house full of dogs and cats and  an XBox. lol.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 8, 2013 at 9:44am

Welcome back, Ian.  Looking forward to hearing and seeing more from your trip. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 8, 2013 at 8:26am

Ian, I look forward to your reports. This picture just whets my appetite for the narrative. Safe travels. 

Comment by Angela on June 8, 2013 at 8:24am
Joan, you took the words right out of my mouth! Great post.
Comment by Joan Denoo on June 8, 2013 at 8:21am

Remembering how hard I tried to please others, and how miserably I failed, it isn't difficult to realize my belief system kept my mind bound. I thought I was created to please others and to serve them. Life has a way of tossing bombs in on a belief system that shatters it all to pieces, and one has to rethink what is true and what is delusion. Examining beliefs is what good therapy is all about, or good education, for that matter. 

Learning how to think for oneself, to pay attention to what is happening, remembering what happened in the past to cause one to form a belief, anticipating what will happen if nothing is changed, and then forming new ideas into new beliefs that can be based on reason, has a higher probability of leading to healthy, happy functioning. If one discovers the new idea does not lead to a flourishing, then rethink the beliefs and try again. Nothing is set in concrete or made certain in scripture. 

Conformity

Comment by Ian Mason on June 8, 2013 at 3:19am

Returned in the early hours from a really good holiday on Crete. Too tired to catch up now but will be back with you soon. Me and fellow travellers in Impros gorge.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 8, 2013 at 1:46am

The internet & phone spying began with Dubya and the unconstitutional Patriot Act; we're just finding out the details now.

You'd think we were surrounded by armed enemies.  Or  (senior moment...I've forgotten the title) as the comic strip said (OH! it was "Pogo"!)..."We have met the enemy, and he is us." 

We have become so paranoid since 9-11 that we ARE our own worst enemy.

I'm glad I'm old.

Comment by Plinius on June 8, 2013 at 12:03am

Internet spying - I'd have thought it was more more like George W to do things like that. Time to put up a picture of my bare bottom: that's for you, NSA!

Comment by Steph S. on June 7, 2013 at 11:30pm

 

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