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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan 6 hours ago. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat on Friday. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 6:53pm

1960 program/PR pic...I'm in the center back, standing directly behind Jinx Clark (in the oyster shell.)

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 6:39pm

I took dance (ballet & tap) for six years before I suffered burn-out and quit. About a year later some retired show skaters opened a small ice studio here in Burbank, and ran ads in the local paper offering the first 10 weeks of lessons at a discount.  My mom showed me the ad and asked if I was interested....was I EVER!

By the time I was a senior in high school, I was just barely good enough to make the chorus line in Holiday...This was my favorite costume:

O, HALP! I stuk in '59. backstage in Pee-oree-yuh! Pleh.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:39pm

Patricia: I love Kurt Browning's version of "Singin' in the Rain" because it's such a wonderful tribute to Gene Kelley, AND my body can still feel some of the moves he does (I never could jump...too scared).  But that's the kind of skating I fell in love with when I first saw it on TV ....long, smooth edges, and fancy footwork.  I can't stand what competitive skating has evolved into the last 25 years...an effing jumping contest. Gah!

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 5:32pm

I think the only people who enjoy DST are amateur golfers who like to get a game in after work.

It seems like no matter where I worked, I ended up facing east while driving to work in the morning, and west on the way home.  With the sun in my eyes in both directions.  There are NO sunglasses dark enough to cut the glare.

Does anybody else remember when ALL the railroads in the US ran on Standard Time all year...no matter where they were? It's TRUE.

You would think that the logical time to change clocks (if we have to do it at all) would be on the Equinoxes, but nohhhhh...they keep stretching DST at both ends so that people have to go to work and to school in the dark when the times first change.  IMO there is NO need for it.  (We had "Double DST" during WW2 when the aircraft and munitions plants ran 24/7...must have been awful.)

Comment by booklover on August 25, 2013 at 5:25pm

Hi Everyone!  My Mom and I had fun in Green Bay, but I'm glad to be home.  Glad you're back on here more Ruth!  It's my Sister's puppy, so I call her my puppy-niece.  I'll get caught-up here now. :)

Comment by Lillie on August 25, 2013 at 2:30pm

Love your rebellion, sk8eycat.  lol.  I also hate DST.  I have an internal clock that doesn't switch easily.  I am always so happy when it changes back in November.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 1:37pm

I have NEVER understood why "they" bother with DST in the northern latitudes!  We rehearsed one summer in Minot ND, and it was daylight, or twilight till 11PM, and the local teens (yokels!) drove up and down the miniscule main street outside our hotel, with their car radios blaring, till midnight.  WE had to get up around 6AM to have breakfast and get ready for rehearsals at 8AM. 

Arizona is the ONLY state that doesn't "do" DST now, and I think they're wise.. I love it because I don't have to calculate what time it is there when I want to call my only remaining (and forever favorite) aunt in Winslow.

In the meantime, here's something that makes me feel wonderful every time I watch it... obviously I don't do it enough.

ENJOY, EVERYBODY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXtd7xq7URM

Comment by sk8eycat on August 25, 2013 at 12:40pm

No apologies necessary, Ruth. I'm a "night person," myself, and I understand how addictive it can be sometimes.  I am also not fond of summer, it's either too hot and dry, or overcast and humid, and I've been having problems with hypoglycemia.  I HATE feeling sweaty (who doesn't?) 

I have a freezer full of good food, and I just haven't felt much like cooking...or eating... the last couple of weeks.

I did treat myself to a decent haircut (and many hugs and air-kisses) Thursday.  I love having Francisco fuss over me for a little while, and he gives a wonderful cool-water scalp massage that relaxes me completely, and relieves my almost constant headache for the rest of the day. 

The only problem I have with his salon is that most of the really good gossip is in Spanish, and I never managed to learn much even though I spent several months in Mexico City...50 years ago!

Anyroad, after I was feeling more like a human instead of a shaggy dog, I bought a 6-pack of A&W Rooty Beer and some vanilla ice cream, and as soon as I got home I built a giant root beer float (my fave!). HEAVEN!  I didn't even bother to buy sugar-free ingredients, or check my blood sugar after I drank the thing. 

Sometimes I just have to be "bad," and I feel so much better for it than I have in weeks.  In fact, I may run out to the pool, get naked, yell, "TITS TO THE WIND!"  And jump in.  If I do, you-all will hear about it.

[giggle]

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 25, 2013 at 9:34am

Sorry to hear about your PC, Ian. It's so frustrating to lose everything.

I've been an irregular member lately because I've been dealing with seasonal affective disorder. Yes, in the middle of Summer. For a month I'd been sleeping 11 hours, sometimes longer. It finally dawned on me that I'm not getting enough sunlight because I was going to bed at 2 or 3 AM. It's so easy to watch TV till midnight and then fall into the computer. Sleeping through most of the daylight turned into a viscous cycle.

In an effort to wrench my sleep cycle back to normal, some days I don't even get the computer turned on. I'm sitting in my sunroom now, as soon as I wake up, instead of heading for the computer as I used to do. It's beginning to work. Yesterday I did the gym routine I used to do ever so long ago, instead of the shortened version. Last night I only slept 9 hours 40 minutes. I have a way to go till my new day/night schedule is settled. I apologize for neglecting you so much.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 24, 2013 at 12:07pm

 

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