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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Ian Mason on July 8, 2013 at 10:13pm

Love it, Mindy. Nothing wrong with a well-developed ego.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 8, 2013 at 9:13pm

Comment by Lillie on July 8, 2013 at 5:54pm

Love the raccoon cat.  Had a friend that raised a baby raccoon that thought he was a cat and ate with the cats.  There was a hole in the attic where he came and went.  Eventually he stopped coming and had probably "come of age."

Comment by Ian Mason on July 8, 2013 at 1:20pm

That must be some kind of relief, Patricia. Better than not knowing, anyway. Hope the problem isn't serious.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 7, 2013 at 8:55pm

Thanks for the meowing raccoon, booklover.

Sorry I've been away for a while, too busy for the internet.

Thanks for sharing your concerns about locating Isabel, Patricia.

 

 

Comment by sk8eycat on July 7, 2013 at 1:49pm

HAPPY ROBERT A. HEINLEIN'S BIRTHDAY!

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 6, 2013 at 4:13pm
Of course you should be kept in the loop. It is kind of like when kids don't check in to report their safety, give them a big hug and kiss when they do, and then scold the heck out of them. The relief of knowing they are safe moderates with expression of disappointment in making others worry.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 6, 2013 at 3:15pm
Patricia, you make good sense. You have done all that can be done. The rest is up to Isabel and her family. Please do keep us informed.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 6, 2013 at 2:43pm
Sorry, I tried to delete my duplicate message, to no avail.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 6, 2013 at 2:30pm

Patricia, I am so sorry for the stress you feel for your friend. The only thing I can think of is to keep making contact with her family members, even if they do not respond.
May I be so bold as to suggest that being frantic helps no one, especially you. Do you have some stress management techniques to help you feel less stressed?  

 

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