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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 38 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist on Thursday. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

Granddaughters

Started by Donald R Barbera. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Nov 15. 6 Replies

I've got three grandsons and I love them to death, but my youngest son and his wife had a baby girl in January and I haven't  right since. Granddaughter has me wrapped up like my grandsons never did. What is it about granddaughters? Her name is…Continue

Tags: grand-parent, girls, little, granddaughters

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 19, 2014 at 10:07am

Happy weekend to you as well, Ruth.

It got cold here last night.  Our first frost warning. 

Went out for pizza last night with my atheist best friend.  It was nice to get out of the house and spend the evening with him.  Other than the folks here at A|N, he's the only other voice of reason that I can really vent about politics and religion. 

Comment by Randall Smith on October 19, 2014 at 8:19am

Taking the dog on a 5+mile walk in a bit. Nice, sunny, but chilly, day. Then going to my grandson's 5th birthday celebration.

Stayed up late (by my standards) to watch the end of the Notre Dame-Florida State football game. It was decided in the last seconds--so exciting, I couldn't get to sleep! I was born and lived 9 years in South Bend, IN., the home of N.D. It's in my blood to root for them (they lost the nailbiter).

Comment by booklover on October 19, 2014 at 3:03am
How cute, Ruth!
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 19, 2014 at 1:54am

Happy weekend, All!

Comment by sk8eycat on October 18, 2014 at 3:48pm
Comment by sk8eycat on October 18, 2014 at 3:41pm

Mindy, where do you find those?  Super!

I wonder what those rapture-belivers think or feel about the fate of their pets in such a situation.  Domestic animals have NO survival skills, and would suffer horribly and die, and since xians have been taught that animals have no souls (no matter what those "Rainbow Bridge" cards say), they would never be reunited in some imaginary afterlife.

One of my friends had the guts to walk out of Sunday school much earlier than I did because her dogs and cats were, and still are, the center of her life.

It all comes back to the fact that those people really don't give a rat's a$$ about anything but themselves.  It's  very self-centered, arrogant way of life.

Comment by booklover on October 18, 2014 at 9:31am

Comment by Randall Smith on October 18, 2014 at 7:46am

Felaine, I can relate. I was forced to go to church and Sunday School. My mother was choir director and I was her leading bass. (Dad sang tenor). Of course, I was a member and eventual president of the MYF (Methodist Youth Fellowship). I pretty much faked piety.

Comment by Plinius on October 18, 2014 at 2:25am

What a happy baby Brooklyn is! What does her name mean to you? All I can find is Brooklyn, New York or, older, Breukelen, the Netherlands. I think I miss something here.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 18, 2014 at 1:10am

Dear Flyer, about that frog cartoon....Gahhhh!  I'm glad I was on the college prep track in HS...I had a choice of sciences instead of just biology,  I didn't want to cut up any animals, even if they were already dead.

I did make one really stupid mistakr when I was in 8th or 9th grade,  I started going to the Baptwit church...mostly because a lot of cute guys went to that one.  I also joined YOUNG LIFE because of the good-looking boys....and became a Jobie because my dad was a Mason, and we had a lot of social events with the DeMolay guys in addition to the boring meetings.

What I was really doing was trying to pray my father out of his vodka bottle.  I didn't know that "Nothing fails like prayer."

I later learned that Young Life was (and still is) a subsidiary of The Family Fellowship, one of the most subversive organizations in the USA.

Sometimes I still feel like I was a damfool, and a pain in the ass to my classmates back then.

 

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