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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Local Color in the Neighborhood

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius on Saturday. 24 Replies

It's getting on toward peak color season here on the North Coast.  I'm lucky enough to have some truly beautiful examples of it literally right outside my door and a short walk around.  So I thought I'd break out the Olympus and record some…Continue

Tags: trees, local color, autumn, fall

Fall is already here--do you celebrate the holiday season?

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Nick Bottom Oct 15. 25 Replies

I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Oct 3. 10 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

Tags: blu, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

Tags: stealth key copying, stealth key duplication, key copying, key copying from photos, stealth

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

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Comment by sk8eycat on September 11, 2014 at 9:58pm

I have an e-mail notice that Joan posted something in here about "faith," but I can't find it.  Has it been moved, or deleted?

Comment by sk8eycat on September 11, 2014 at 9:55pm

Oh, Carl, that's SO cleverly written and narrated.  How did you find it?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 9:39pm

Hey, folks.  Here's your science lesson for today.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 9:30pm

Well, my new avatar picture shows a new addition to my everyday life:  glasses.  I'm really glad I have them as now I can read small print and also see things clearly in the distance.  Now.....getting used to bifocals for the first time ever! 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 11, 2014 at 7:14pm

Ian, I'm one of those SF-nerds who thinks we should celebrate the first Moon landing, Japan surrendering in 1945, the end of smallpox, or just the discovery of vaccination in general, and the completion of the Human Genome Project.  And on and on.  (The unmanned Mars landers have thrilled me, too.  Plus the Voyager project back in the 1980s.)

One thing that hardly anybody seems to know is the FACT that the manned space program has paid for itself by a factor of 10 times its original cost....particularly in miniaturization in electronics, and medical monitoring. 

I have heard neo-Luddites still harping on "throwing money away on space," when the exact opposite is true....and we let our elected a##holes cut the funding time after time. 

Tricky Dick cut NASA's funding while he was talking to the Apollo 11 astronauts on the moon.

Aaaarrrrrgh!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2014 at 7:02pm

Carl, I like your statement, "All I can do is to realistically take one day at a time and to meet each challenge with logical thinking and actions.  To me, the biggest peace of mind comes from knowing what is real and acting accordingly.  I also know I have a wonderful network of family and friends to rely on."

From personal health problems to national disasters such as this day in history calls for the same kind of wisdom as you evoke. 

Comment by Patricia on September 11, 2014 at 6:39pm

Husband due home any time now, making chili for supper, for a chili reception.....hahahaha!!!!

Comment by Patricia on September 11, 2014 at 3:18pm

It must have been terrible for you at the time Carl. We in Canada remember vividly as well. In fact we got back from our first Alaskan cruise 2 days before it happened, & all travel was shut down. A fire fighter cousin of my husband's went to NYC to help, so he saw things with his own eyes he'll not ever forget. Living in the past doesn't work, so why keep making the past such a big deal?

Comment by Ian Mason on September 11, 2014 at 3:13pm

Felaine, I've heard an idea somewhere that we remember bad things better because evolution meant us to learn from mistakes, back in the era when making a mistake could lead to being eaten by something big and hungry. Unfortunately the same process doesn't seem to work in a social context: one stupid war follows another with far too people protesting. I agree with you, though that there is too little celebration of acheivement. Here's a link to something that does.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIMNXogXnvE

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 3:11pm

Although 9/11 greatly affected me personally, I've never had the desire to attend a public memorial service.  When I've been to New York City, I've never had the desire to take the subway downtown just to visit "ground zero."  I will never forget what happened that day, but I like to do my grieving in private and move on.  What the future may hold seems more important because it appears, to me, to be more fragile than ever before.  I want to strive to make the world a better place for all humanity.    

 

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