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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 18, 2014 at 11:22pm

Melinda, in my inexpert medical opinion, I would guess that only having swelling is a better situation to be in than having a buildup of fluid.  Of course, I'm not a doctor.  I don't even play one on TV.  Just curious.  Is the swelling causing pain?  In any case, I hope your son gets answers and subsequent treatment soon.  And congratulations on your family's financial health.  You are a rare breed and you are to be commended.

Comment by Patricia on March 18, 2014 at 11:18pm

I remember the Powers name very well, Felaine.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 18, 2014 at 11:14pm

O, my nerves! How terrible!

That reminds me SO much of the time Gary Powers' KNBC news-chopper crashed here in the Valley.  He ran out of fuel because he spent too much time covering a fire up near Santa Barbara.  Ironic...he survived his U-2 being shot down in 1960,but not this:

According to Powers' son, an aviation mechanic had repaired a faulty fuel gauge without telling Powers, who misread it. At the last moment he noticed children playing in the area, and directed the helicopter elsewhere to prevent their deaths. If not for the last second deviation, which compromised his autorotative descent, he might have landed safely.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francis_Gary_Powers

He was sort of a neighbor for a year or two when I lived in a 4-story "party" apt. bldg.  He did NOT party with the rest of us...he stayed in his penthouse most of the time. That was 1965-66, he was still recovering from the trauma of the whole USSR business.

Anyway, whenever I hear of a helicopter crash I think of him.  He was a good local newsman after he came out of his shell.

Comment by Patricia on March 18, 2014 at 10:00pm

Terrible helicopter crash in Seattle!

Comment by booklover on March 18, 2014 at 8:45pm
Cool Patricia! Thanks Felaine!
Yeah, they did an MRI and said they couldn't find anything wrong! When he felt the knee, and looking at the knee, you can see it's very swollen! Weird!
Comment by sk8eycat on March 18, 2014 at 7:42pm

Meliinda, that is very strange about your son's knee.  I thought he'd already had a thorough MRI done...wouldn't that have shown whether the swelling was fluid/blood or tissue?  (I've had MRIs of my spine and neck, and I'm always amazed at the detail that shows up in the images...including a little goiter I didn't know I had...)

As for the debt (almost) payoff....CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Comment by Patricia on March 18, 2014 at 7:31pm

Nice news Melinda. We have no debt at all......very nice feeling!!!

Comment by booklover on March 18, 2014 at 7:18pm
So they tried to take fluid from my son's knee, but found it was almost just all swelling. They took blood, and are going to test for a ton of other auto- immune diseases, since having one already (type 1 diabetes), makes him more prone to getting another. We go back in a week to get the results.
On a good note, we paid-off my car today, and have exactly ONE debt. The rest of my husbands car loan. We don't keep credit card balances, our mortgage is paid-off, etc. and we still have money in savings. We are 46 & 47. I can't wait to be totally debt-free! First we need to save for a new roof. It should be easier to save more with that car payment gone. :)
Comment by booklover on March 18, 2014 at 2:12pm

That's cool Felaine!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 18, 2014 at 2:03pm

If you read Spider Robinson's Callahan's Place short story collections, you'll find out that Tuesday (night) is/was ALWAYS Punday.  The teller of the worst pun (they were also usually shaggy dog stories) had his or her tab for the night refunded. 

Nice custom.

Try Callahan's Crosstime Saloon.

 

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