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Local Color in the Neighborhood

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius on Saturday. 24 Replies

It's getting on toward peak color season here on the North Coast.  I'm lucky enough to have some truly beautiful examples of it literally right outside my door and a short walk around.  So I thought I'd break out the Olympus and record some…Continue

Tags: trees, local color, autumn, fall

Fall is already here--do you celebrate the holiday season?

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Nick Bottom on Thursday. 25 Replies

I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Oct 3. 10 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

Tags: blu, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

Tags: stealth key copying, stealth key duplication, key copying, key copying from photos, stealth

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 7, 2013 at 2:03pm

Sorry, Patricia and Joan, I can't imagine viewing any tree that isn't poisonous or excessively invasive as ugly, even if branches die and it looks degraded. Wabi-Sabi. Fast growing trees absorb CO2 faster. Guess I'm a tree hugger at heart. However, planting Polars farther from your house only makes good sense.

Just sayin', "Boop!"

Comment by Patricia on September 7, 2013 at 1:12pm

The only way to get rid of those trees is to hope the neighbors move. He is ADAMANT that they are HIS trees & they are just barely inside his property line. He absolutely will not pay attention to any argument my husband has put up. Yes, we've seen them everywhere as windbreaks but usually not too near the homes. Of course it would be a whole new ball of wax if HIS house, or windows, were being hit with branches in the winds.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2013 at 12:59pm

Patricia, the tree looks like it is poplar, notorious for growing fast, having brittle branches and turning incredibly ugly as branches die. By all means, do what you can to get rid of them. When they are young, they are so pretty and lush ... old age sets in very early and they become hazards. Many farmers of the Palouse plant them for wind breaks and very soon they become old hags. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 7, 2013 at 10:48am

Yes, he looks a lot like Pumpkin's baby picture, Patricia. I'm glad you're both doing better.

sk8eycat, loving a terrifying father is part of Dominator cutlure. To someone who is comfortable with mutual respect and unconditional love for children (Partnership Culture) it is illogical. Dominator parenting is explained by Riane Eisler in several of her books. It's the emotional foundation for people adoring the nasty dictators who oppress them. People raised by "strict fathers" are perfectly comfortable with this, and don't really get love or respect for leaders who don't act like Alpha Male primates. If you weren't raised with unconditional love and treated with respect for your feelings and intelligence as a child this makes perfect sense to you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 7, 2013 at 3:15am

Pumpkin's picture makes me smile.  :)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 7, 2013 at 2:23am

Ruth, that kitten looks a bit like my Pumpkin did when he was a baby:

Pumpkin's Baby Picture - 1999

I must 'splain that is a very tiny TV he's perched on. The entire front of the "box" is less than 10".

Comment by sk8eycat on September 7, 2013 at 2:18am

Loren and Mindy, I've wondered for a long time why believers consider it a compliment to say someone is "ghod-fearing."  (Then they turn around and say "ghod is love;" are they afraid of love?)

Comment by Patricia on September 6, 2013 at 8:58pm

Such a pretty little kitty Ruth!!!

Comment by Patricia on September 6, 2013 at 8:57pm

Beer (booze) is off limits for my husband as he can't mix alcohol with his heart meds. I drink wine on weekends, but I can't even use that as an excuse for falling down the stairs, & Chinese food was a nice treat afterwards anyway. I'm still stiff & sore, but my husband is fine now other than very itchy at the sting site.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 6, 2013 at 8:10pm

Patricia, I'm sorry you and your husband had such a bad day. You describe it so vividly, I shudder. Maybe because I've had a wasp inside of my clothes and got stung multiple times. But I only needed Benadryl and a beer.

At least you were able to enjoy your take out.

Interesting video, Flying Atheist.

 

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