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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 27, 2013 at 12:48pm

This is a hoot!

Comment by Joseph Corder on November 27, 2013 at 5:57am

Joan, I would never have known that the brain has so much to do when you listen and dance to music!  Seem like my brain is lit up a good portion of the day!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 27, 2013 at 3:34am

Ian......4 a.m.?!  What are you doing out so late?!  It's Tuesday......a school night! 

Sounds like you had a very fun evening.

What age do pensioner benefits begin in Denmark?  I'm 49 years old, but in 8 short months I'll be 50 and technically eligible to become a member of AARP (the American Association of Retired Persons) and to start receiving "senior citizen" discounts and special offers.  Of course, AARP is not our government run retirement/benefits program.  We have "Social Security" for that purpose.  And for me personally, due to economics, I'll probably have to wait until my early 70's to begin collecting those benefits.  

It's all very depressing......... 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 27, 2013 at 2:20am
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 11:09pm

Glad you are home, safe and sound. Go ahead and take those pensioners tickets. What the heck, play it for all you can get. 

Comment by Ian Mason on November 26, 2013 at 9:16pm

It's 4 a.m. and I've just got home from Copenhagen and an evening in the company of the wonderful Black Sabbath. And yes, the feet were stamped, the hands were clapped and the head was banged. A great concert that was all I could have hoped for with an excellent mix of old and new numbers.
The only bad moment was with the coach driver on the way over. He was very nice but it's the 3rd time in 6 months that I've been asked if I wanted a pensioner ticket  The next person to do so will sleep wid da fishes!
Enough. Off to bed soon.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 26, 2013 at 8:22pm

Here's a nice little "feel good story" I thought I'd share with all of you. 

Family Photo Blown Away by Tornado Found 150 Miles Away in Jefferso...

Jefferson Park is the neighborhood next to mine here in Chicago.  It's where I catch the "L" to the airport. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 7:38pm

Your son-in-law had to learn multi-tasking in a hurry. How funny! God may have had to put him on hold a time or two.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 4:24pm

Having a nice husband and good father is very important and I don't mean to make light of the importance of those relationships. I am sorry to learn that church is their main contact with the outside world. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 4:22pm

Ouch, Patricia, five grandchildren can bring a lot of pleasure into one's life and it is too bad to miss out on that. It is really sad to think they will grow old not remembering times with you and your husband. Playing church doesn't offer much opportunity for imagination or questioning.

Three of my great-grandchildren came into our lives when they lost their mother to illness. Their daddy was overwhelmed and when I first met him, he looked like a deer caught in headlights. He has settled down nicely to his new combined family and the three children, all between 12 and 2 years old, were leary at first, very cautious about getting close.

I was recovering from heart surgery at the time and couldn't go exploring in the forest as I did with my own great-grandchildren, or make drums out of fallen logs,  or make things out of found items. So we started out by going outside after dark. I sat in a rocker, put a sheet over my head, shone a flashlight from my lap over my face, then started a ghost story. I passed the flashlight and sheet to the next child who told his/her part of the story, and we kept going around the circle until all the children added to the story. At first, those three couldn't do it at all. They just had no imagination. Over the four years since then, they tell the most fantastic stories. Really clever, full of imagination, very creative. 

Church stories are made up by adults and told to children who become passive learners. My goal with the little ones is to have them become creators, imaginers, and free thinkers. 

When my grandkids were little, I told them of the people I met on my research projects, and they told stories of their experiences and their friends. We also did "What if"" stories or "How come?" ones, or "Who is it?" or ... any topic that gets them imagining. 

 

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