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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on October 29, 2013 at 10:04pm

Patricia, yes, the clinic gives me all I need of Aloe Vera, 4 time a day; Silver Sulfadiazine Cream, as needed; pure refined Emo Oil, at night; and Hydrocortisone Cream 1%, as needed. 

These all give me great relief, especially now that the blisters all popped and my first layer of skin began peeling off. The second layer of skin has several holes in it to reveal whatever is under that. This is what they called, "skin breakdown";  the radiologist checks it weekly, and P.A. check it daily. There is no infection, and I am able to keep the area clean. All the other entry points are fine, just sunburned; I think there were five different angles they had to shoot because of my heart, lungs, and pacemaker.

I use Cetaphil, a mild lotion, for cleansing.

If you have a suggestion, I will gladly look into it. I was alerted that this was to be expected because the last five daily treatments were focused on the tumor area itself, not the surrounding tissues. It was kind of like getting shot with a shot gun for five days a week for five weeks, and then shot five days a week for one week with a rifle. 

Everybody, get your cancer check up. Drs caught mine very early and I had no symptoms that I or they picked up. It was the mammogram that found those beastly devils. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 29, 2013 at 9:25pm

Joan, I'm usually not a big fan of those auto-tune melody songs, but I really like the one you just posted a lot.  It's quite catchy.  I'm glad to hear you're getting a reprieve from treatment and now having the opportunity for your body to relax and regain some state of normalcy.  All my best to you! 

Mindy, I love the taco cat.  Oh, yeah.....and you're dog's snout.  Cute picture. 

Comment by booklover on October 29, 2013 at 8:15pm

CHEESY! ;)

Comment by booklover on October 29, 2013 at 8:14pm

AWESOME Joan!  Not about the weariness and tissues hurting, obviously, but SO glad you are done and free!!!! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 29, 2013 at 7:54pm

Symphony of Science - Secret of the Stars

Cold, windy, clear skies, a beautiful autumn day! No chemo, no radiation, I'm free! Feel great although weary. My tissues hurt like blazes, literally, and I am healing. Ruth, you and I can just sit back, take our leisure, and heal; without feeling guilty! 

Comment by booklover on October 29, 2013 at 7:33pm

Cool Ruth!  I have never heard of computer controlled anesthesia!  You are having to do exactly what my son had to do 3 weeks ago, when he had 3 impacted Wisdom teeth out.  He was put totally under.  His 4th Wisdom tooth never grew.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 29, 2013 at 4:57pm

Ruth, time for all those wonderful fall soups and chowders for the next two weeks.  Glad everything went well. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 29, 2013 at 4:25pm

Thanks, everyone for your concern. Tthe surgery was far easier than I'd feared. After the topical anesthesia, the surgeon used computer controlled anesthesia. The computer makes sure the anesthesia flow is slow and steady. Later the traditional injections, but not all at once. *sigh of relief* It was as pain free as one could imagine. (Horray!)

Now I'm on ice packs every half hour, no gym, antibiotics four times a day, Naproxen sodium, yucky mouth washes, no hot food or beverages. I'm also on totally soft food for two weeks. The antibiotic-caused diarrhea is already starting to kick in.  :(  Oh well. The tooth will be worth it.

Nice flowers, Joan.

Will we get to see your new hairdo, Chris?

Funny drawings, Patricia.

Comment by booklover on October 29, 2013 at 8:42am

Glad you are alright Chris!  I hope we hear from Ian soon.  Ruth,  I know dental surgery is no fun.  I will be thinking of you and I hope it goes smoothly and you heal fast!  Funny billboard Patricia. :)  My husband and I are going to a lawyer today to have a will made.  We are stupid in that we have never had one!  Even when our children were minors!  We are usually SO responsible, and this is one area we failed.  It will be very simple now. 

Have a good day friends!~ Mindy

Comment by Plinius on October 29, 2013 at 7:20am

Thank you, Carl and Joan, how kind you always are! I'm all right. Got a lot of fresh air and a new hairdo. The streets are full of leaves, torn off branches and dead umbrellas, but the cleaning has started and life goes on as if nothing happened. The storm made wonderful pictures and happy cats - and victims, yes.

And here comes Luna: she supports the "Freeze all work until cat decides to move" so that gives me a good excuse to sit at the pc and NOT start household chores.

Best wishes for your surgery, Ruth!

 

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