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Local Color in the Neighborhood

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius on Saturday. 24 Replies

It's getting on toward peak color season here on the North Coast.  I'm lucky enough to have some truly beautiful examples of it literally right outside my door and a short walk around.  So I thought I'd break out the Olympus and record some…Continue

Tags: trees, local color, autumn, fall

Fall is already here--do you celebrate the holiday season?

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Nick Bottom on Thursday. 25 Replies

I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Oct 3. 10 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

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Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

Tags: stealth key copying, stealth key duplication, key copying, key copying from photos, stealth

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on October 14, 2013 at 11:48am

Loren, love you tongue in cheek cartoon and your "wistful and gentle for a Monday morning" music. 

Patricia, great "copy dogs" clip. 

Hi Joseph. By all means, speak up about your beliefs, with concrete examples of why you don't believe superstitions and the dignity and self-respect you receive for yourself, knowing you stand on your own two feet and don't have to imagine some guy-in-the-sky helper available to pull you our of quicksand of one's own making. Why would anyone want to put faith into a belief system and scriptures of a Stone Age people who may have been good goat herders, but without the knowledge of science to help make informed decisions. Frankly, I find the whole religious thing ludicrous nonsense. I just had an experience with faux-religion.  A man living in a small community, a volunteer fire fighter, and a very religious man, suffers from acute leukemia. His church members sent cards and get well greetings as well as "I'll pray for you" messages and many said they would help with remodeling their home to make it easier for his wife to care for him. Not one church member who said they would pray came to help with the many tasks that needed to be done. The volunteer fire district members came, even with kids helping, and completed the job. I don't know if the man thanked god or his fire district members. I hope he made the connection. Cheap grace is no grace as far as I am concerned. I like caustic remarks to people who ask if I have been "saved", i.e. "No! I don't believe in superstitions!" or if they say, "I'll pray for you" I respond, "I'll think for you!" I don't think it is rude to be honest. It is stupid to be timid in such events. I hold no respect for religious thoughts. Others are entitled to their opinions, and not all opinions are equal. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 14, 2013 at 11:31am

Carl, you clearly have a compassionate heart! I can't think of a better way to spend a life; If basic needs are met, there is no reason to live in huge homes, drive expensive cars, have dozens of shoes, or any of the other extravagances one could choose. I really like the simpler life, with lots of laughter. It is the fun that comes with hard work, devotion to family and community that counts. Belonging fills a lot of empty holes in one's life. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 14, 2013 at 11:26am

Mindy, your news of your mother helping with your daughter's education debt reveals her generous and loving nature. However, it is a dirty shame that education debts cost so much and most families can't carry such a load. We desperately need help with education expenses. A rich nation should be able to take on that responsibility ... the whole nation benefits from well educated citizens. I am happy for your daughter and know it will be a big assist in getting her over this bump. 

Our nation grew in wealth and well-being with the education funds available for people returning from military service. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 14, 2013 at 11:18am

I spent the weekend at Laura's family's forest home and celebrated my great-grandson's 5th birthday with a houseful of kids running and playing in and out of the forest. The city kids, timid about their wilderness adventures, and my great-grandkids who also live in the forest, who are so wise about the flora and fauna of their 17 acres, I learn from them. We spent Sunday getting the farm machinery cleaned and stored for winter, blowing out water pipes, and Larry's grandson "burning" the nine wooden boxes Larry and his son built to grow next summer's vegetables. The burning was to prevent insect damage to the wood. They are so pretty! All lined up in rows of three with plenty of work space between the boxes. The two families' dogs joined in the celebration and the chores. Even the cats got into the act. The weather was crisp and sunny. They live on the north side of Mt. Spokane and the mountain range north of my home at a higher elevation. They have had killing frosts already. Although my granddaughter's home is on the county road and has all the trees cut and trimmed to protect from forest fires, my daughter's home is farther into the forest and out of sight of the other house. They continue to cut trees and thin to protect from forest fires. All the adults are volunteer members of Pend Oreille County Fire District 8, and the teen agers take the trainings that are appropriate for them. The fire district is more like a family then a civic organization. The help each other with projects, and one member is hospitalized with cancer. Many fire district volunteers turned out to clear the house of furniture and store it while some remodelled to prepare easy access for his care after he returns home. They then replaced everything back to normal. They also held a fund raiser to help with the family's extra expenses.  

Granddaughter Michelle and Great-grandson Noah

Comment by booklover on October 14, 2013 at 9:35am

Thanks Carl and Chris!

That is HILARIOUS Patricia!   I showed my daughter. :)

Hi Joseph!  That's SO disappointing!  Go ahead and tell them what you think of their beliefs!  You have just as much right to say what you don't believe, as they do to tell you what they do believe!

Where the heck did the weekend go?????????????

Comment by Joseph Corder on October 14, 2013 at 9:15am

If one person ask me if i've been baptized in the blood, I WILL BLOW A BASKET!!!  I WILL TELL THEM WHAT I THINK OF THEIR god and let the chips fall where they may!!

Comment by Loren Miller on October 14, 2013 at 9:03am

Something wistful and gentle for a Monday morning:



Eating muffin buns and berries by the steamy kitchen window.
Sometimes we do; our tongues turn blue...

Comment by Joseph Corder on October 14, 2013 at 8:54am

Hey guys,  Long time no talk!  I've connected with my high school friends Zweibrucken American High (class of 1980).  Man, what a disappointment!  Religious Republican Christies (fuc*).  They can't talk about their experiences when we were in school, especially when us kids were hard,hard left. It's all about Christ and their warped perception of politics!  Talk about mangling the facts!  They talk about EVERYTHING in absolutes!!  What a disgrace to logic and reasoning!!!!

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on October 14, 2013 at 1:44am

That's clever. What program is it ?

Comment by Patricia on October 14, 2013 at 1:36am

Copy dogs.....

 

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