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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jul 21. 14 Replies

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change.org

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Jul 16. 6 Replies

There's a new petition taking off on Change.org, and we think you might be…Continue

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Saving Number 90 - From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 1. 9 Replies

Seth says himself that the following is a departure from the usual fare his YouTube channel features.  Personally, I think it's a positive and constructive move, because it demonstrates that no, we are NOT just about atheism.  We're also very much…Continue

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Human Rights for Atheists, Agnostics and Secularists

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jun 27. 11 Replies

I just ran onto this YouTube video, promoting a change.org petition aimed at amending the United Nations charter supporting the abolition of all anti-blasphemy laws. The petition referenced by the video is…Continue

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Comment by Patricia on June 21, 2013 at 5:29pm

By the way.....my glasses also have purple frames!!!!

Comment by Patricia on June 21, 2013 at 5:28pm

No licensing for electrics here Joan. My husband lost his driver's license after the stroke affected his eyesight which is why he bought that scooter. I never did drive so never had a license. His scooter can go on the streets, but my scooter is considered a pedestrian so I go on the sidewalks, & right into buildings. If no sidewalk is available, I drive on the left, facing traffic.

We keep 'threatening' each other about drag races....hahahaha....except my scooter can go up to 9.6 miles an hour, where his can go 50 or 60 I think......soooooo.....no brainer for who's win....hahaha!!!!

Notice how slim my husband is......& he's got the terrible heart!!!!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2013 at 4:42pm

Patricia, what a lovely sight! You, your red hair and purple hat and  LUMBAR-GHINI What fun. You are whimsical! 
Is your  LUMBAR-GHINI street qualified ... it must be, you said you carry groceries in it. You are an inspiration for me. 

Your husband's electric scooter looks fun ... you have an actual parade when you take off together. 

Do you live in an area that gives you road room? And do you have to have a motor vehicle license tab? 

This is about as close I could find for singing about driving your Lumbar-Ghini

The Laurie Berkner Band - Drive My Car

Comment by Patricia on June 21, 2013 at 4:14pm

For you Joan.....

My LUMBAR-GHINI

One of my many purples....taking my own pic...

 

My husband's electric scooter which is street worthy....

 

 

Our 40th anniversary  years ago....still in a wig at the time....

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2013 at 12:05pm

Chris, what a nice thought about the benefits of Alzheimer's. I have not thought of that. Delighted to learn your aunt wanted to play at a fairy tale park and "she lost herself in wonder and delight". Your commitment to your aunt reveals your fine  quality of character. Good for you!

Grinning Cat, I give up. You offer a nice little piece of gristle to chew on when things get tiresome. Interesting about a headache helping solve puzzles. 

Thanks for all your positive thoughts. This week is far more pleasant than last week. The good news, there are good and bad days, so I do experience relief. That gives me time to renew and refresh. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 21, 2013 at 10:35am

To be fair with the word puzzles, readers of Hofstadter's book also knew that the Tortoise had a headache at the time he was given the puzzles -- yet instead of interfering, it actually helped him solve them!

Comment by booklover on June 21, 2013 at 9:30am

Thanks Ian. :) 

Ruth, it was really cool to see that bear, if only very briefly!  I love your "Enjoy Summer" picture!  Happy First Day of Summer to everyone!

That's nice your Aunt enjoyed her day Chris.

You guys are all the best!  It really starts my day out right to get my morning coffee and come straight to Hang With Friends. ~ Mindy

Comment by Plinius on June 21, 2013 at 6:26am

Thanks, Ian, but no thanks. What else can we do except try to create the world we want to live in? And Aunt was the one who spontaneously visited and welcomed me, when she found out that her nephew had a girlfriend; that was a wonderful gift to me!

Comment by Ian Mason on June 21, 2013 at 4:24am

Welcome back, Mindy. That sounds like a great break you've had.

Bon apettit, Joan. Glad to hear that your taste buds are working.

Chris, that must have been a moving experience with your aunt. It's all too seldom that family take that kind of trouble with their older relatives so thank you on behalf of carers everywhere, including me :-)

Comment by Plinius on June 21, 2013 at 3:28am

I'm happy you're so strong, Joan, and I hope your chemo day goes well without discomfort.

A Positive Journal, what a wonderful idea! Now that I'm often in the old people's home I'll make a note on the positive side of Alzheimer's; Aunt, and some other patients I've met, manage to forget their unhappy memories. Bad marriages, unwanted children, rape, injury and abuse disappear as if they never happened, and a calm world of kind faces, flowers and woolly animals opens. It's quite a job to enable patients to enter that safe world and in the last two years I've learnt to admire the caretakers in Aunts' ward.

 

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