Information

Hang With Friends

Location: Earth
Members: 850
Latest Activity: 50 minutes ago

Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

A comment is a shout-out, which will get lost in a few days, because the comment wall is just a random stack.

Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover 11 hours ago. 21 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Wednesday. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Hang With Friends to add comments!

Comment by Loren Miller on December 10, 2013 at 5:25pm

That sure look like a dog with a 'tude to me, Ruth!  [chuckle!]

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 10, 2013 at 5:17pm

Dogs can  be funny too, sk8eycat. This is Tuna the Chiweenie.

Comment by sk8eycat on December 10, 2013 at 5:01pm

It was so bloody cold (for Southern California) that I woke up at 5AM and couldn't go back to sleep.  So I pulled the covers up to my head and read for a couple of hours.  AND for the first time since I adopted Pumpkin, he joined me UNDER the blankies.  And purred and purred and purred.  So comfy-cozy, and he makes a good arm rest.

Comment by booklover on December 10, 2013 at 9:13am

Awwww Felaine, cats really are funny and comforting!Love your cat stories!  You can tell us your troubles as well as your jokes!  That's what friends are for!

Comment by Loren Miller on December 10, 2013 at 7:24am

Well, 'tis the season and all that ... and for a long time, since I first got the album, I have loved Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass' mellow, easy-listening take on that old classic, "Let It Snow."

All I have to say from here on is: Please enjoy!

Comment by sk8eycat on December 9, 2013 at 10:13pm

Mindy, thank you. I hate dumping all my daymares on everyone here.  I try to keep my sense of humor alive, and very much enjoy the funny pics everyone posts in here...especially all the silly cats. It helps a lot.

Cats can be SO funny, and they resent our laughter so much. The black Devil cat we had 30+ years ago used to play and play and play till he had to pant like a dog, and if anyone laughed at him, he would go into a corner, turn his back and start washing his face.  It was like, "I don't know what you alll are laughing at; it certainly wasn't anything I did!"  This usually was after he'd been batting an ice cube all over the kitchen floor.  He loved that game.

He also used to love to sit beside my dad in the recliner to watch the news, or a football game.  After Dad died, The Devil still got into the chair when it was time to turn on the TV....and waited, and waited.  I would sit beside him, but I guess I didn't smell right (Devil was blind by then.)

Pumpkin likes to snuggle up to my shoulder when I'm reading in bed...he also rubs his chin on the books I have stacked beside me.  His favorite (right now) is Losing Faith in  Faith by Dan Barker.  ;>)

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 9, 2013 at 9:19pm

I also like and saved the ice cat from Steph and the meatball shaped planets by Mindy.  I've saved a lot of images, but sorry I haven't had time to respond to much.

Comment by Steph S. on December 9, 2013 at 9:19pm

Patricia love the rat nap.

Felaine sorry to hear about your social security and rising cost of living expenses. Wish there was something I could do to help.

Congrats on your daughter's job Booklover.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 9, 2013 at 9:15pm

The rat nap is cute Patricia.

Comment by booklover on December 9, 2013 at 8:55pm
I'm sorry you have to worry about that Felaine! I understand why you would be really stressed over that! I was always very physically strong as well. I swear after giving birth, my body fell apart. Gallstones, major panic-attacks, terrible Acid-reflux, the list goes on and on. At 46 I don't feel that I could work full-time. Luckily I don't have to. I wouldn't trade having my kids for anything, but it did make me physically and now mentally (anxiety) weaker.
My daughter started her job today, and goes Thurs. to talk to another counselor re: finishing her degree. Here's hoping!!!!
 

Members (850)

 
 
 

Support Atheist Nexus

Donate Today

Donate

 

Help Nexus When You Buy From Amazon

Amazon

 

© 2014   Atheist Nexus. All rights reserved. Admin: Richard Haynes.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service