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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Loren Miller on December 20, 2013 at 9:56pm

Mindy, my apologies ... but I will have NOTHING to do with Facebook, and for the same reason that I don't engage theists on other boards in discussion or debate.  I did that for four years on The Experience Project and it was largely wasted time, made worse by an administration that clearly favored the theists over the atheists while thinking they were being egalitarian.  I'll grant you that there may be onlookers who may benefit, but if they can't be bothered to identify themselves or at least express some appreciation for my effort, frankly, it is not worth it to me.

When the Jehovah's Witlesses come to my door, they get their asses handed to them, but then, they came to MY door, decided to argue their bullshit on MY turf, and deserve everything they have coming to them.  That doesn't mean that I perforce go out looking for confrontation.  I don't.

I don't start fights.  I finish them.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 9:33pm

According to the Farmer's Almanac, the shortest day of the year, the Winter Solstice, the time when the Earth spends two days in the same relationship to the Sun is  ..... drum roll please ....

December Winter Solstice is on Saturday,

December 21, 2013 at 17:11 UTC

December 21, 2013 at 9:11 AM Pacific Standard Time 

Please correct me if I am wrong. 

Days will start to get longer and longer and longer and longer .............

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:55pm

Loren, you say it so clearly! I would only add:

"Do you really believe in a supernatural god? 

"Can there actually be a virgin birth? 

"Surely you can't believe in a spirit world? 

"Don't you think the devil is a construct of a fear filled person?

"Do you put your trust in a story that came out of a desert people 2,000 years ago? 

"Do you actually believe the Earth is 6,000 years old? 

"Will Stone age people's solutions solve today's problems? 

"Do you actually believe in miracles? 

"Where is the evidence? 

"Have you ever read the scriptures? 

"When are you going to give up childish things and think as an adult? 

"I respect you too much to listen to this nonsense!

I want to force a person to think. I really don't care if they have an answer for me because I won't be around to hear it. I certainly don't want them around me or on my internet strings. Thankfully, it is easy to block nonsense. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:43pm

Mindy, yes, this is a good place to come and explode in disgust and whatever the feeling. 

I also think it is quite appropriate to state, directly to the one that ticks you off, that you don't like it. Point out exactly what you don't like, You don't need to say why, that is pointless to get into that because he/she will just come back with some sort of denial or defense.  

Just a very simple script: 

"When you  ... say, do, or share an offensive piece ... or whatever. 

"I feel  ... disgust, revulsion, insulted, nauseated ... or whatever. 

"I want you to ... stop, quit, apologize, discontinue, ... or whatever. 

"If you don't ... stop, I will block your site ... or whatever. 

Just remember, 7,200,803,677 other human beings inhabit the Earth and you don't have to put up with any one!!!!! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2013 at 7:29pm

Loren, your music selections refresh me. You have a real ear for beautiful sounds, calm moods, I like your offerings very much. Thanks. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 20, 2013 at 6:46pm

I saw this today and it seems to be particularity appropriate right now. 

Comment by booklover on December 20, 2013 at 6:40pm
Loren, can you get on my Facebook page and let them have it?! LOL. You are SO much better at explaining things than I am!!!
Comment by Loren Miller on December 20, 2013 at 6:19pm

To those who wish to assert that shaming religions as silly and not real is not okay:

  • Have you actually READ your holy book?
  • Have you seen some of the utterly ridiculous things it asserts?
    • Talking donkeys and snakes
    • People who live for centuries
    • Creation that took seven days (with no evidentiary support) as opposed to 13.7 billion years (and enormous volumes of evidence)
    • Proscriptions for things like pork, shellfish, and wearing clothes made of two different materials
    • Too many other things to name
  • Are you prepared to offer satisfactory proof that they are for real?

If not, we suggest you either get used to it ... or rethink your attachment to a ridiculous, millennia-old myth.

Comment by booklover on December 20, 2013 at 4:38pm

I had to come here and share this because 2 friends from Facebook put it up today.  I don't agree with this and it's pissing me off!I think they think it's "cute" because of the Rudolph reference, but it's still f-ing dumb.   Yes, it IS okay to point-out that religious beliefs aren't real, especially when they are getting into YOUR business with their beliefs.  Also, it's NOT OKAY to be homophobic, mysogynistic, and racist if it's in the name of religion or not!  Unless the ass who is keeps it to themselves and it doesn't affect anyone else.

I don't know, this just REALLY got on my nerves and I needed to share with SANE people.  :)

Comment by Loren Miller on December 19, 2013 at 9:24pm

More delicious music from my all-time favorite jazz ensemble, Oregon:

 

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