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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2013 at 1:12am

Mindy, I hate what your daughter experiences and feel for her. False accusations, especially when so blatantly placing blame on her with no evidence, would really get my goat! There comes a time when she will look for work someplace else. If she has been accused twice for no reason, she is entitled to an apology and has the right to issue an ultimatum. She doesn't benefit by people not showing her respect.
This situation is what I call the "Oh Well ... !" syndrome. Receive an insult or put-down or discount one time and just shrug it off with an "Oh Well!" and she receives another insult ... and says, "Oh Well!", pretty soon her life becomes "Oh well!".
I can't think of a better way to become depressed and self-loathing.
I know, she wants a job and to become independent. That is a noble goal. What price does she have to pay to keep that job? Is it worth it to her?
A first step might be to discuss her reaction with her supervisor or boss and set some ground rules. To be accused without evidence and to not be trusted and supported by her co-worker, is an insult, in and of itself. It is up to them to prove her guilt, not her to prove her innocence.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2013 at 12:55am
Grinning Cat, splendid training that cat gave his/her owner. I wonder how long it took? I trained rats during my undergraduate work and I must say, those rats had me as well trained as this cat!
Comment by Grinning Cat on September 10, 2013 at 11:27pm

Also from lovemeow:

Not quite Pavlov's bell: "Cat Trains Human to Feed On Command", using a bell to request treats.

Comment by Lillie on September 10, 2013 at 10:26pm

Grandpawrent's cats are so cute.

Comment by Patricia on September 10, 2013 at 8:55pm

Don't envy your husband at all Melinda!!!

My youngest son is the same way with honesty & can't stand being accused of not being so. He eventually walked off a job when it happened just one too many times. He was not going to stand for it anymore, he's never been without work either.

Comment by booklover on September 10, 2013 at 8:43pm
Love the cats Carl and Patricia! It was almost 100 degrees here today! I went swimming at a friends house, and she had a few other ladies over. It was nice! My poor husband was totally wiped out after work. You can actually see the dried salt from sweating on his uniform. Ugh. My daughter's rich boss and his wife blame their employees for everything. A waitress left her purse out and open. My daughter is the hostess at their upper- end restaurant. First they accused my daughter of it being her purse, then asked her why she Let the waitress put her purse where it shouldn't have been. Also someone put a laptop on one of the tables. It left a scratch. They asked my daughter why she scratched the table. WHAT?!?! People are jerks! And she hasn't even been there a month yet! Her boss told not to worry, they accuse everybody of everything. My daughter prides herself on her honesty, and she was really insulted when they act like she's a liar. My husband told her that's just life, you've got to play the game. Well the game sucks!!!!!
Comment by Patricia on September 10, 2013 at 6:02pm

Cute, FA!

Japan's answer to Grumpy Cat.....

The Cat Who Looks Like He’s Permanently Disappointed In You
http://lovemeow.com/2013/08/the-cat-that-looks-like-hes-permanently...

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2013 at 4:43pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2013 at 4:37pm

Comment by Patricia on September 10, 2013 at 12:37pm

Yeah, that's something you don't want happening again, Melinda!!!!

 

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