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Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

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Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

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Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

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Comment by booklover on January 24, 2014 at 8:06am

Thanks Patricia and Joan.  My son has always been a "money guy."  My daughter just laughs because she never has money.  Even when he was young, for instance, a neighbor just walked across the street, gave him $100, and asked if he'd mow her lawn 4 times while she was out of town.  I think he was 12.  People just give him jobs and gifts, lol.  I hope it stays that way! :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 23, 2014 at 11:22pm

Hey, What a son! Just a few rapids in the river of life. The good news is you and he have the courage, and wisdom, and intelligence to take them on, one at a time, and move past them. 

As you know, I am not a great fan of Buddhism, but I do the smorgasbord thing with their teachings. I found simple phrases help my move past a worry, i.e.

"What is, is" (Daniel likes this one, too). or

"The cause of all suffering is desire; end desire; end pain." or 

"If a problem is fixable, fix it. If it is not fixable, then there is no help in worrying." 

"Change takes place through action, not prayer or meditations, but action." 

I would change this one to:

"Change takes place through thought and action, not prayer or meditation, but through thought and action."

There is an old Liberation theology belief that Paulo Freire taught, that thought without action is of no value; action without thought is chaos.

"Choose thought + action = Praexis."

You know how those silent things we tell ourselves that keep us from solving a problem or conflict? Well, they are the negative self-talk that can spell the difference between success and failure. I can't cite the study that was done, but I remember the finding. Mountain climbers who say to themselves, "I can't do it" have less success at mountain climbing than the climbers who say to themselves, "I can do this!" 

Good thinking and doing!

Comment by booklover on January 23, 2014 at 9:24pm
Spud, I've been having a racing pulse off and on. My blood-pressure was okay, and a short EKG they did was fine. I'm hoping it's just stress. I really let things get to me. I am a worrier, especially about my kids, and usually it turns out that it was nothing to worry about!
I get the results next week, and I will tell you guys what they say!
Thanks about my son, he is saving for a new Mustang since he lives at home and can sock away money. My Mom said if he can save $10,000. she will match it! He already has $5,000.!!! He also owns a 2004 Mustang he will trade in. Not a bad deal!!!!!
Comment by Idaho Spud on January 23, 2014 at 5:53pm

Good news about your son's raise Mindy.  Hope his knee is no problem.

What is your heart monitor for?

Comment by booklover on January 23, 2014 at 4:15pm
Thanks Joan! If course I will worry about his knee until we get the results of the MRI. An X-Ray showed nothing. He doesn't remember doing anything to it.
Comment by Joan Denoo on January 23, 2014 at 2:32pm

Mindy, Sorry about your son's knee problems. I am surely glad you have good health insurance! I am about to total up my medical costs and insurance covered expenses; it just makes me sick to even think about it. 

Great news about your son's new position offer and raise. So nice to read some happy news of individuals. 

Comment by booklover on January 23, 2014 at 7:27am

*an, not and raise :)

Comment by booklover on January 23, 2014 at 7:27am

Joan, I will let you know what my heart monitor reveals.  I won't get the results until the middle of next week.  My son also has to have an MRI on his knee.  There is fluid in it.  Aarrgggh!  He did get offered a better position in the company that he started working for last September.  This is a step up and comes with a $2 and hour raise!  :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 23, 2014 at 12:14am

P.S. Mindy. Am interested in what your heart monitor reveals. Please keep us updated. 

P.S. Ruth, I like your candles and cake! very festive!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 23, 2014 at 12:11am

Ruth, I thank you so much for your outstanding articles on such a wide range of topics, and your honesty in responding to each one of us. I hope you are feeling well. 

I have concern that your snow levels may be overwhelming. 

 

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