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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith yesterday. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 4, 2014 at 1:08pm

Joan, you've mentioned several times in the past that you are humorless.  If you don't mind me asking, have you always felt this way about yourself?  Were you that way as a child?  I'm just very curious if your past episodes with abuse somehow may have stolen any possibility from you to fully enjoy everyday humor. 

For myself, I've grown up and lived my entire life laughing.  Laughing at myself, sharing good laughs with family and friends, laughing at the absurdities that life presents to us.  At the same time, even as a child I enjoyed sitting with adults to listen to their conversations, so my life wasn't just one big laugh fest.  You're situation is very foreign to me. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 11:35am

Spud, I am afflicted with lack of the same humor gene as you, it appears. Well, we are loosening up a little bit. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 11:32am

If you want a real treat take a peek at Charles Cusumano page. He is serious, intelligent, and angry ... in a funny sort of way. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 11:25am

XTC LYRICS

"Dear God"

, hope you got the letter, and...
I pray you can make it better down here.
I don't mean a big reduction in the price of beer
but all the people that you made in your image, see
them starving on their feet 'cause they don't get
enough to eat from God, I can't believe in you

Dear God, sorry to disturb you, but... I feel that I should be heard
loud and clear. We all need a big reduction in amount of tears
and all the people that you made in your image, see them fighting
in the street 'cause they can't make opinions meet about God,
I can't believe in you

Did you make disease, and the diamond blue? Did you make
mankind after we made you? And the devil too!

, don't know if you noticed, but... your name is on
a lot of quotes in this book, and us crazy humans wrote it, you
should take a look, and all the people that you made in your
image still believing that junk is true. Well I know it ain't, and
so do you, dear God, I can't believe in I don't believe in

I won't believe in heaven and hell. No saints, no sinners, no
devil as well. No pearly gates, no thorny crown. You're always
letting us humans down. The wars you bring, the babes you
drown. Those lost at sea and never found, and it's the same the
whole world 'round. The hurt I see helps to compound that
Father, Son and Holy Ghost is just somebody's unholy hoax,
and if you're up there you'd perceive that my heart's here upon
my sleeve. If there's one thing I don't believe in

it's you....  
Comment by Idaho Spud on April 4, 2014 at 10:29am

Oscar Wilde's advice sounds great.  Just wish I knew how to make people laugh more than once a decade.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 10:11am

If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you. ~Oscar Wilde

Comment by Plinius on April 4, 2014 at 1:05am

Thanks Patricia. I don't want everyone to google my name and find me here - had a few surprises - so I changed to my old bookcross name.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 4, 2014 at 1:00am

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 9:57pm

Hi Patricia,

Where I live, no body will care if you are just an atheist and keep your mouth shut. But if you are an anti-theist/anti-religious (like me) and criticize religion, you will be in trouble for sure.

Our constitution protects all stupid religious beliefs and calls itself "secular".

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 11:22am

Thanks for the greetings sk8eycat! I'm getting more and more comfortable at this place. At first I was overwhelmed by the complexity of this place -- groups, chats, forums, walls, blogs. However, now I am much more comfortable getting my way around.

Thanks everyone, I'm in good company. :)

 

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