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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on February 21, 2014 at 4:18pm

Puppy & Cat

Comment by sk8eycat on February 21, 2014 at 3:49pm

We saw Leno around Burbank quite a bit...especially at a little Italian take-out place up the street from the Cat Hotel.  They made their own pasta; the lasagna noodles were like silk.

I also saw him a couple of times when he led the motorcycle Love Ride through town...that was amazing!  Imagine being surrounded by hundreds of happy people on big rumbling Harleys; it was like being in the middle of a harmless earthquake, or a continuous thunderstorm.  (This happened on Sunday mornings when I was driving home from my shift at the Hotel.  I always thought it was a MUCH better activity for adults than sitting in a church somewhere.  It's fun for everyone, and they raise money for MDA and other charities.)

http://www.loveride.org/menu_flash.htm

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 21, 2014 at 1:38pm

I miss watching Jay Leno also.  I liked him as much or more than Johnny Carson.  Why did they fire Jay when he was at the peak of his popularity?

I've not watched Jimmy Fallon yet since he took Jay's spot.  I watched him a few times when he had the other show, and he didn't do anything for me.

Comment by sk8eycat on February 21, 2014 at 9:54am

I miss Jay Leno...I met him a few times when I was working nights at the Cat Hotel (before the end of 2005).  He was just a nice guy when he was being himself, and loved his elderly cat, Cheeseler, with all his heart.  That wins BIG points with me!

The first time he called to say he was picking her up, I went crazy looking for her carrier...finally called the Hotel owner to ask where it was stored, and she said he didn't use one.  I said something intelligent like "hunh?"  she just said, "You'll see."

So, while I was running his credit card and printiing out the invoice, Mr. Leno went back to Cheeseler's condo, gently picked her up, kissed her,and then buttoned her inside his shirt so that just her head was poking out.  She was purring so that you could see her little old body vibrating through the fabric.  True love and trust, IMO.

EARLIER photo of Jay Leno and a young Cheeseler:
Jay Leno with His Cat

Comment by booklover on February 21, 2014 at 7:10am

Thanks Grinning and Felaine. :) 

Carl, sounds like a great night out!  So cool you got to see Johnny Carson do The Tonight Show!

Loren, I love Jimmy Fallon!  And the Muppets! Thanks for the clip, it was great!

Patricia, I'll have to tell that joke since I have a Labradork! :)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 20, 2014 at 10:29pm

Hi, Mindy.  I'm doing well, thank you.  Was out tonight for some wine and dinner with my best friend.  I had a delicious hamburger topped with American cheese, grilled onions and BBQ pulled pork on a pretzel roll.  Carrot cake for desert.  Very nice! 

Loren, that's a great clip of the Muppets.  What a great cast of characters.  I was a big fan of the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson but strayed away when Jay Leno came on board.  I've heard that Jimmy Fallon is getting good reviews and that the show is now, once again, filmed in New York.  I happened to see a clip earlier today of his first Tonight Show and his guest Jerry Seinfeld.  It was funny and fun to watch.  I'm happy for Jimmy Fallon, he has a good personality.

One of my favorite memories from a trip to California back in 1988 was being in the audience for a taping of The Tonight Show.  That was such a great day.  Johnny Carson was a class act.  And you just couldn't get any better than Doc and the band.    

Comment by Loren Miller on February 20, 2014 at 8:28pm

Not a big fan of Jimmy Fallon or The Tonight Show ... but I AM a big fan of the Muppets ... and I thought this was fun:


Comment by sk8eycat on February 20, 2014 at 5:20pm

Oh, my! I DO empathize with your son!  I know only too well that an excess of fluid in ANY joint can be extremely painful (as I sit here waiting for the gout in my feets to go away.  There's no quick treatment for that.  I just hobble from one room to another...my walker doesn't help much, so I just hang clothes on it....)

Hoping all of us are much better soon, and ready when spring rolls around.

Comment by Grinning Cat on February 20, 2014 at 5:18pm

Mindy, I hope your son will quickly find an end to the pain, with his knee staying fully functional!

(Years ago I had my own minor scare with a resonance in one ear, where the doctors didn't know why it happened, and the ENT would have tried cortisone if it didn't go away on its own. Fortunately, it did and stayed fine.)

Comment by booklover on February 20, 2014 at 4:59pm

Thanks Carl!  :)  I hope you are fine too!!!

 

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