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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by sk8eycat on March 17, 2014 at 10:33pm

Oh, I'm fine, but after living through 4 or 5 major quakes makes me jumpy whenever anything in the house rattles.  All it takes is a heavy truck driving up the street....

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 17, 2014 at 9:58pm

Felane, very happy to learn you are safe, unhurt, and undamaged. Poor Kitties.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 17, 2014 at 7:08pm

Perhaps 10,000 leprechauns were performing their version of "Riverdance"....at 6:25 this morning. 

One interesting fact stemming from the 1994 Northridge quake was that certain areas...like West L.A., Westwood, and some coastal areas were damaged as much as, or more than, places that are nearer to the actual epicenter.  Although, my friend Sue, who is VERY close to Northridge, and everyone in her neighborhood had to rebuild the cinder-block walls between their yards.  The old ones (without rebar) all fell down, but no actual damage to their houses. 

Haven't heard any damage reports from this morning's little dance.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 17, 2014 at 5:26pm

Here is what Google Earth shows. Interesting where the swarms exist. The 4.4 quake is the largest orange dot above U.S. 405 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 17, 2014 at 4:32pm

I'm glad you're OK, sk8eycat. Funny cartoon, booklover. It took me a second to get it.

Anyone interested in learning how low North Korea has fallen? 5 Insane Petty Crimes Committed by North Korea

Sorry about the failed image.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 17, 2014 at 12:46pm

Hope that's all you get Felaine.

In the 11 years I lived in California, I can only remember one earthquake.  I was in a phone-booth talking to my girlfriend when the booth started rocking, but not enough to scare me.  I just told her the booth was rocking and kept on talking.  I don't know how much it would take to scare me, but I think it would take a lot.

The only other one I felt was in bed in northern Idaho.  I thought one of the other boarders in the building had crawled under my bed and was rocking it as a practical joke, but finally figured out it was an earthquake.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 17, 2014 at 8:47am

Well, we had  "our" earthquake this morning; it wasn't much, just enough to rattle the doors and windows...and wake me up. And scare the cats.   A 4.4...I hope that's ALL we're going to get.

Going back to bed.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 16, 2014 at 7:35pm

Joan, about all the quakes off the coast...there will likely be aftershocks for months...even a year or so after such a big jolt.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 16, 2014 at 5:10pm
RELIGIONS OF THE WORLD

The People's Temple: this Kool-aid tastes like shit.
Comment by sk8eycat on March 16, 2014 at 4:32pm

When Daad died in 1985, I made a miatake, and called Forest Lawn...we did eventually have him cremated with no ceremony, as he had wished.  Cost a LOT!  When Mother died in '92, I called the Neptune Society...cost about half of what Forest Lawn charged six years earlier.  So...I decided to buy a contract with them in advance.  My sister has to do nothing but call them, and they will do the rest.  I specified no prayers or songs when they scatter my ashes.  Unless they want to sing "Springtime for Hitler," or "Let Me Entertain You"...or "Gellicle Cats"  or even..."Happy Holidays"...my Alma Mater.  Really...That was ALWAYS played before the overture, and the very last part of the finale...every show.

"Happy Holiday, Happy Holidays,

 May the calendar keep bringing

 Happy Holidays to you!"

Yeah.  I still like it.

 

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