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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 23, 2015 at 10:59pm

Oh, Carl....I wanna hug you SO much!  Just think of me as RBG .... the  emotion is the same:

President Barack Obama hugs Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, on Capitol Hill in Washington, Tuesday, Jan. 20, 2015, before giving his State of the Union address before a joint session of Congress. (AP Photo/Mandel Ngan, Pool)

Comment by Patricia on January 23, 2015 at 10:24pm

Oh good grief Carl....whatever next?!

Rick says to tell you his heart is nearly all scar tissue & he's still here after 26 years. He can't have repair surgery because they can't cut away enough of the scar tissue just to leave more scar tissue which wouldn't heal anyway. This conclusion was 20 or so years ago. His only alternative is a transplant, but just not right now. He does everything he can to keep his mind elsewhere so he doesn't have to think about it 24/7.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 23, 2015 at 9:58pm

Well, I've had a bit of a health set-back.  I recently had a echo cardiogram and a nuclear cardiac stress test.  Results show that I have moderate to severe aortic stenosis and that I need a aortic valve replacement. 

As I mentioned previously, I had a mild stroke in December.  These recent tests show scarring on my heart which indicate that I've also had a prior heart attack.  Thinking back, I can pinpoint the evening back in July when that must have occurred.  It's what prompted me to make an appointment with my doctor the following day which put me in the hospital where they discovered my kidneys failing.     

So now the big decision I'm waiting on from doctors is whether to have heart surgery first and then the kidney transplant, or vise versa.  Either way, I have some challenging months ahead of me.  Personally, I'd rather go ahead with the kidney transplant first, but I'm not a doctor.  The best I can do is heed the advice of the professionals.

The past six months have been overwhelming.  I've also noticed my health declining.  I'm now getting winded and out of breath just walking around my small apartment,  I lack the energy to perform simple tasks and chores.  Luckily, I have access to a computer and all you wonderful people here at Atheist Nexus to keep me occupied and sane when I'm not sleeping or napping. 

Comment by k.h. ky on January 23, 2015 at 9:45pm
It's snowing :( Two inches already. And I was so ready for spring.
Comment by sk8eycat on January 22, 2015 at 1:05pm

I should have posted the link:

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2015/01/20/1359015/-Cartoon-Post-Raci...

Good comments, too.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 22, 2015 at 1:02pm

From Daily Kos:

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:36am

Joan, I like the "Hope for the future" video.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:35am

Patricia, I'm saving that arrangement of roses.  I love the multi-colors.

Felaine, I'm saving that cute birthday cat in the vase.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:27am

Thanks peeps, for liking the cake.

Comment by Plinius on January 22, 2015 at 7:01am

Far too late of course, because you're awake at the wrong time! Happy birthday, Joan, I hope there's a wonderful year in store for you!

 

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