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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Comment by sk8eycat on November 23, 2013 at 1:36am

Mindy, that news about your son's promotion is absolutely JOYOUS! (Or joyful...I don't know which is correct grammar,,,Heh).  Anyroad, thank you for posting that; it makes me feel good to know that  somebody somewhere is getting the breaks they have earned.

[Lifting cuppa tea in congratulations]

Comment by Plinius on November 23, 2013 at 1:08am

I'm happy that there's good news too in your family; Mindy! That could help your daughter.

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 22, 2013 at 11:21pm

(Doris Redrupp illustrating Edward Gorey's immortal quote -- hit the link for a larger version)

Comment by Steph S. on November 22, 2013 at 8:52pm

Comment by Steph S. on November 22, 2013 at 8:51pm

Wow - he sounds so very smart and intelligent Mindy. You must be a very proud mother. Thanks for always being here for me. I sure so appreciate that.

Comment by Patricia on November 22, 2013 at 7:38pm

Always glad to hear of the good job situations for the kids now. 2 of mine have been able to purchase homes for themselves, which is something these days!

Comment by booklover on November 22, 2013 at 7:17pm
Thanks Steph! I know you are always there for me! I'm always here for you too! My son is SO excited! From shipping and receiving to the engineering dept. in less than 2 months. Also, the computer program he knows, the one they use in their business, he taught HIMSELF! Goes to show the way I homeschooled him, by letting him discover and explore his own interest, works! He just downloaded it, played around with it, and learned it! :)
Comment by Steph S. on November 22, 2013 at 4:58pm

How wonderful to hear about your son Mindy. Congrats. He is really going places. Always here for you whenever you'd like to share.

Comment by booklover on November 22, 2013 at 4:50pm
I truly appreciate all of your responses and replies! Thanks everyone! Felaine, I'm sorry you have to know about it first- hand! I wish I could give you a real hug as well! Thank you for sharing your story with me. Grinning Cat, Steph, Joan, Chris, you guys are great!
Well my son just walked in with great news for himself! He was hired a few months ago to work full -time at a business doing shipping and receiving. Great family-owned business, full-benefits. Anyway, he set- up something for his boss on the computer, then the engineering guys had him do some things with them. So tonight he got called in to his bosses office, and asked if he'd like to move into that department instead, and they'd pay for his computer classes at college at night! His 90- day " trial" isn't even up, and he's promoted into something that can be a career instead of just a job! He is SO excited! I am so happy for him!!!!! My daughter called and said she got to her friends okay, and she is very happy for her brother! Thanks for listening to more of my family- stories my friends! xoxo Mindy
Comment by sk8eycat on November 22, 2013 at 12:39pm

Many good quotes here: http://modernatheist.org/humanities/quotes/

Click on one, and you'll get the slide show.

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Mindy, I have tried to deal with clinical depression for more years than I can count...that's one of the reasons I sometimes  "disappear" from this group for days or weeks at a time. It comes and goes: some meds have worked for me, and some don't. I don't like to talk about it because of the reactions I've gotten from people I thought were my friends in the past..."you're too self-centered" is one of the mildest.

I have lost jobs because of it...I would reach a point where deciding to get out of bed in the morning was too difficult a decision to make. Paxil helped about 20+ years ago when I was obsessing about walking in front of a train (I stopped myself by remembering the trauma such an action causes train crews and EMTs...some of my uncles and cousins worked for the railroads, and I have a great affection for anyone who works the trains today.).

So.... I've been going through a lot of mental/emotional/physical pain for the last couple of months, and I empathize with you and your daughter completely.  I wish I could say something more helpful...I'm not on any meds now...haven't been for years...so my "brayne" is stuck.  But I just wanted you to know that I''ve "been there, done that," and I know what It feels like.

I really wish there was some way to send physical hugs over the net...research has proved that hugs do release beta endorphins into the brain, and provide some relief...temporarily.  Here's one for you:

*&gt;:D< big hug

Hugging a kitty helps, too. Srsly. Pumpkin spent last night purring on my shoulder; didn't help me get to sleep, but I felt comforted. I think they may be telepathic...or empathic.

 

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