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Comment by booklover on November 26, 2013 at 3:09pm

Patricia, your husband sounds like mine.  I have to do this with my sister and her husband.  She claims to not be an xtian anymore, just believes there is a gawd.  HE KNOWS there is one, he's prejudiced against non-whites (Doesn't claim to be, just talks like he is and makes me FURIOUS), and he's FAR RIGHT -WING.  YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  He's good to my sister and niece and nephew, and I want a relationship with them, so it's a GOOD THING we don't live in the same city and see each other very often!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 2:52pm

Patricia, I am happy to learn you have time to investigate which computer will work best for you. There are lots of brands from which to choose. I look forward to learning what you decide. 

Have to keep these lines open to chat with this group. Never boring, always enlightening, and very often fun. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 2:49pm

Patricia, sounds as though you make a very responsible decision in this case. You want to keep the relationship with your daughter and grandchild and in order to do that you have to set limits on subject matter.

Good for you. You are not the villain in this situation; you know what you know and what you need. Taking care of yourself is essential for mental health. Listening to or participating in a conversation, such as religion, with them is of no interest to you and your line should be drawn. 

If you don't have choices, you become a victim. Because you do have choices, and because you have drawn the line, you are not a victim. You are a decent, wise and compassionate person. 

I support you 100%.

Comment by Patricia on November 26, 2013 at 2:02pm

Thanks Joan,

I'm researching all options, & portability doesn't really matter much although I do like to sit in the living room with the little netbook on my lap. I figure I have a few months to look at them until tax rebate time in the spring.

Comment by Patricia on November 26, 2013 at 1:55pm

My daughter & her husband KNOW I don't agree with their nonsense!!! The subject stays closed now simply because I refuse to get into it & wreck MY blood pressure, as well as knowing that I don't speak well & face to face doesn't work for me!!! I always have the ''I should've saids'' afterwards if I try confrontation. They kept trying for a short while after their marriage to convince me I ''had'' to believe in gawd & I told them to look at the world mess, as well as their newborn & picture her with cancer! I said we DO NOT believe in gawd & the subject had better stay closed if they expected me to stay civil & get along. As it is, I'm the bad guy in this, but that's their choice. If their acceptance of us depends on their beliefs, then so be it, I don't care. I have to live with myself. My husband doesn't say much, & they also know he doesn't believe, but he's not as far down the scale as I am because he won't argue. My feathers get ruffled very easily, so as I said, my bp is more important to me than arguing with the brainwashed.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 1:47pm

@Patricia, I asked Laura her recommendation and here is her response: 

"It sounds like your friend is at the point I was at in 2007 when I was "so done" with Microsoft computers. If she is interested in switching to Apple, the type of computer depends on her needs. Does she need portable or not. If portability is important to her then a Macbook is the way to go. If portability is not important then an iMac is a wonderful solution." Laura

Keep in mind that Laura has her own business designing web pages for professionals, her husband builds network systems for professionals. They have lots of experiences and knowledge. 

I hope you find what is right for you. I have MacBook that I use every day, an iMac that I use for designing/creating albums, and I still have an ancient Microsoft that I never use. It has old documents from years ago.  

Comment by booklover on November 26, 2013 at 1:46pm

SILENCE IMPLIES AGREEMENT!  ~ I agree Joan!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2013 at 10:31am

SILENCE IMPLIES AGREEMENT! 

Comment by booklover on November 26, 2013 at 9:10am

I love the pigeon picture Steph, and I stole the "off is a t.v. channel."  That's great! lol. 

I think people's tastes change as they age.  I mean literally.  I used to LOVE sweet.  Lots and lots of it.  I can't take it anymore.  My Mom said sweet doesn't appeal to her at all anymore.  My son LOVES sour.  Sour candy, sour anything. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 10:18pm

Tasty sounding recipes Joan.  I've saved them to try.

 

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