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Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover 19 hours ago. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Wednesday. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by booklover on April 5, 2014 at 1:58pm
I loved "I think my cat is a Republican," Carl. Lol

My daughter went on another date last night with the same guy. I ask her and she says she doesn't want to talk about it. They are going Tuesday to the Art Institute in Chicago. I'll tell her to wave to you Carl;). She may just be one if those people that don't want anyone in their personal space too long, excluding cats! If she's happy alone, that's great! But I don't want her to decide that at 22 without trying it or at least talking to a therapist about it more. She has an active social life. I am content to have Grandcats! :)
Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 5, 2014 at 1:34pm

For all you cat lovers (I think there may be one or two of you here) I wanted to post this link from "Daily Kos" I Think My Cat is a Republican.  It's pretty funny.  Also, if you scroll through the comments section there are lots of cute pictures. 

Comment by Arp on April 5, 2014 at 12:46pm

You won't believe me, I don't read the main stream news. I just read satire news websites (for the most part). I like humour. I LOVE humour.

Laughing is the best thing you can do in this world full of sorrow.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:55am

I think laughter is very good for us.  For one thing, it helps us face the challenges of life and overcome anger and depression.  It's the reason I watch my favorite comedy movies once a year, as well as the few comedies on TV I can find.

I wish I were like Mindy and could laugh a lot.  I can if I'm with the right people, but those people are few and far between.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:48am

Good one Loren.  That's a keeper.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:47am

I agree with everyone else Joan.  Your daughter was amazing as well as you.  What a story!

So glad that you were able to escape the horrible abuse and help other women as well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 5, 2014 at 11:44am

Please do remember, my story is not a pitty-potty story. It is all fact and that is the point of my telling it. Hundreds of women - and men - attended my classes and pulled themselves out of their viral lives. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 5, 2014 at 11:40am

Oh NO! I just reread my comment Between Grinning Cat and Arp, 

I misspoke. I did not write what I meant.  I wrote, 

"The conversations that occur on Atheist Nexus are very different than on Facebook and Twitter. The real food for thought comes on these sites. This is where I come for nourishment and for a safe place to rant." 

I should have written:

The conversations that occur on Atheist Nexus are very different than on Facebook and Twitter. The real food for thought comes here on Atheist Nexus sites. This is where I come for nourishment and for a safe place to rant. 

Comment by booklover on April 5, 2014 at 10:18am

I'm like you Carl.  I find humor in everything.  My mom and I laugh together all the time.  There is a lot of laughing here in my home.  I love silliness, jokes, puns, everything.

I did have a stepfather who was a jerk though.  He never abused me physically, but we never knew when his temper would blow and he would start yelling.  My mom divorced him when I was 17, and she could make it with 2 teenage daughters on her own.  I always had a loving extended family though, and a great mom.  I always felt special and loved.

I think you're an amazing woman Joan, and that was awesome of your daughter when she was 10!

Comment by Randall Smith on April 5, 2014 at 8:15am

Admittedly, I've led a very sheltered life. Reading I Fired God,  Joan's story, plus some recent television "exposes", I realize that there's a different world beyond my insolated walls--savage, brutal, sickening. My rose colored glasses have really fogged up recently. Thanks to all that are doing something about the ugliness of our society.

 

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