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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius 8 hours ago. 1 Reply

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 7:08pm

Thank you Ian, I am very content with my life, even as I have grave concerns about the directions of the economic, political, and religious trends today. All these are human made and can so easily be changed. 
That said, life is very good for me. 

Comment by Ian Mason on April 19, 2014 at 2:24pm

Joan, from what you've written here during the past couple of years you have a happy, fulfilling life. You love and are loved. You are active in your own life and the life of others in a positive way. Nothing can beat that.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2014 at 12:44pm

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2014 at 12:36pm

Mindy, I hope you are healing quickly, and have a Happy Burfdai tamarra!

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2014 at 12:34pm

I sort of hate to admit this, but spirals were easy for me; I had many years of ballet lessons before I finally learned to skate.  I just enjoyed skating so much more than tippy-toeing across a wooden floor.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 12:01pm

Mindy, how is your thumb doing? Infection going away? I am surprised to see such fine typing coming from a hurt thumb!

Randy, it is! It feels more like I perceive you. 

sk8eycat, you are clever in so many ways, and to come up with your unique spelling for your name online is just one example. You must feel very proud of your great talents. 

Spud, thank you for your reassuring words. 

Mindy, you have been on this Atheist Nexus with me for many months and have read all the versions. Thank you for being so kind in spite of my repetition nature. 

Chris, as always, you inspire me, especially with how you teach and the support you give your students. Now, with having to take care of family details, you reveal truly fine character.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 11:47am

"That ''young ice-skater'' is sk8eycat Felaine"!!!! What a remarkable skill you had. It must have taken great determination, discipline and persistence to achieve such a fine level of performance. I am impressed!

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2014 at 11:08am

Keep writing, Joan! I'll read it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 19, 2014 at 10:36am

Which one had a successful life?  Rhetorical question I know, but I have to answer anyway.  We all know who did. You did Joan.  Hands down, no question.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 10:23am

Ian, thanks for your very kind comment. I know everyone is getting sick of reading my story, but every once in a while a new way of telling it appears, and so I give it another exposure. 

This time I wanted to reveal how supposedly negative feeling and situations can be turned into victories. For example, when I have a feeling that hurts, i.e. fear, anger, grief, I get out of it by thinking of ways to turn the energy into something whereby I come out a winner. An example, my former husband had many qualities, one of them being able to support us very well with boats, cars, ski trips, elegant holidays to Acapulco, and put a lovely roof over our heads and fill our bellies and take care of health and education costs. In other words, We had financial security. We didn't have safety and stability. 

Don knew how important financial security was for me so he refused to pay child support, thinking I would "come to my senses" and "stop trying to wear the pants of the family." Oh yes, he had control issues. 

So with no income, no education, no job prospects other than minimum wage jobs, I supported us and we grew happier and healthier, in spite of not having enough money. Our garden was beautiful, the kids and I were cleaning up the condemned house and it was becoming a beautiful home. 

I won in the long run. He still had his boats and several cars and trucks to haul around his motorcycles and took fancy vacations. 

Now tell me, which of us had a "successful" life?

 

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