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Comment by sk8eycat on February 22, 2014 at 4:35pm

Ian...I'm LOL-ing because I fixed basted eggs (on toast) for the first time in months this morning.  Only I used white-shelled eggs.  (did YOU take that photo?)

I think I'm going to have some ham, a red Garnet sweet potato, and Brussels sprouts for dinner.  Or maybe just the Garnet by itself...it's large enough for two people.  But I feel like I should have something to balance the sweetness.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 22, 2014 at 2:58pm

Here's one for all the Vegans

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 22, 2014 at 12:04pm

Wow Ian!  I'm Sorry you have such a boss.  I've had unpleasant bosses, but none that said anything like that to me.  That would stress me out for as long as I held the job!

That's funny about the squirrel running up your girlfriend.  I was in Scotland for 2 years and never saw many squirrels.  Was only in London one day and never visited a park, so I guess I missed them.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 22, 2014 at 11:47am

If you've ever seen the squirrels in London's parks those rabbits are not a suprise. I girlfriend I took over pulled out her camera and a squirrel ran up her trying to get at the camera to eat it.

Haven't had the computer on the past couple of days as I've been tired. Here's why:

Monday morning, as I was putting my coat on to go home from work, the boss turned up and said that she wanted a little chat. In her office she told me that I was the biggest problem she had, that I was the equivalent of having en extra resident in the care-unit and a difficult one at that and that something had to change. We arranged a further meeting for Thursday, later changed by her to Friday morning. This time I went "armed" with my union rep. The boss then DENIED saying the things she'd said the first time, made a u-turn, back-pedalled and was an incarnation of common sense. She even listened to what I had to say and approved. In the intervening days I took out my frustration at the gym with training sessions of 2-4 hours including long bursts on a stair machine. When the adrenaline finally ran out I was dog-tired but couldn't sleep because of the pains in my legs. Things have calmed down now and I'm starting to feel normal again, just hungry all the time.

The cause of all this was some long-term friction between me and one of the residents, a man who suffers from bipolar disorder and has all his life used his problem to manipulate those around him. He does things like use an emergency call button at night to tell the duty worked to pick his clothes up off the floor, open the curtains, close the curtains, straighten his duvet......and I refuse to play the game. 

As a long-term depression sufferer myself I know very well the perverse pleasure there can be in wallowing in the condition and making others dance to the morbid tune. I also know that the only way to self-respect and dignity is in the struggle to live despite an illness.

That's been my week :-D

A good weekend to you all.

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 22, 2014 at 11:10am

I only count 100, but it's funny anyway.

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 22, 2014 at 11:09am

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on February 22, 2014 at 6:01am

Les Athées Napoléonienne Learn French the easy way !

Comment by sk8eycat on February 21, 2014 at 9:07pm

I think I've bought paperbacks from Better World through eBay's Half.com.  Are they in Washington state?  (Many of the used books I've bought have had Seattle or Tacoma public library stamps all over them...I don't mind that, as long as the books are readable.  I don't have a fetish about brand new books.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 21, 2014 at 6:25pm

Cute pic of Leno with cat, thanks sk8eycat.

What a patient cat, Napoleon.

Comment by booklover on February 21, 2014 at 4:45pm

Felaine, that's such a great story!!!  How awesome!  I really like Jay Leno.  He was very gracious about stepping-down and saying that Jimmy Fallon was the right guy to take the show next.  Jimmy Fallon is also known as a really nice person.  I hope he likes cats!!!

Napoleon, that video is GREAT! How cute!  The puppy doesn't even look real, and the look on the cat's face is priceless! lol.

 

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