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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Grinning Cat on April 16, 2014 at 4:48pm

It's an important petition, which I too signed.

Here's a direct link to it at change.org: "Human Rights for Atheists and Agnostics - End Blasphemy Laws"

It petitions Navanethem Pillay, the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights, to "Amend Articles 13 (b), 55 (c) & 76 (c) of the 'Charter of the United Nations and Statute of the International Court of Justice,' to include freedom from religion." The current language in those articles of the Charter says "without distinction as to race, sex, language, or religion."

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 16, 2014 at 2:53pm

Patricia, thanks for posting the petition. Signed and Shared.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 16, 2014 at 2:19pm

Patricia, thanks for posting that petition.  I gladly signed it.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 16, 2014 at 12:53pm

Spud, even when I was still going to church (in my teens), I never really felt the need to praise an all-powerful, super-intelligent being.  I always thought that the "Holy, holy, holy" songs we sang, and the grovelling prayers that were intoned would make any self-respecting intelligence sick. (We didn't actually kneel...it was a Bapnit church, but I went to plenty of Catholic weddings... so I knew their "drill."  Stand up, sit down, fight-fight-fight!)

But then I don't even like grovelling dogs...the kind that come snuggle up to your feet with big begging eyes after you've scolded them for not using their dog door to pee outside instead of on the furniture.

The ONLY time I've ever had a cat pee on furniture (my bed), he thought I had caused the Sylmar quake, and the very strong aftershocks, and he was punishing me for keeping him in the house while it shook.  He was used to going outside, and he disappeared for 3 days after the initial quake.  I didn't want to let him out after that....but he did get out about 3 months later, and never came back.  I looked for him for about 6 weeks, and then gave up...there were packs of dogs that had gotten loose and gone feral, and.... they were hungry. 

Sheesh!  That was 1970, and it still hurts.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:34am

Correction: My personality is NOT that of a worshiper.....

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:33am

I don't worship anything either, and didn't even when I was a believer.  Momonism didn't stress worship as much as other religions.  Besides that, my personality is that of a worshiper, brown-noser, yes-man, or flatterer.  I'm not even greatly impressed with most things.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:12am

Felaine, thanks for the reference to filksongs.  Looks like some fun songs there.  In the Old Time Religion song, the verse that made me laugh-out-load was:

Shall we sing a verse for Venus,     
Of the Gods she is the meanest,      
Cause she bit me on my...elbow        
And it's good enough for me.      

But, I haven't been able to find My god's better than your god.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 9:50am

I had another thought about plane safety.  If you fly very seldom like I do, and ride in a car often, then the chance of an accident in a car is probably thousands of time greater than in a plane.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 9:47am

Carl, that's an interesting first plane ride video.  I was glad to see they enjoyed it, despite being scared at first.

I couldn't help notice one comment I hear a lot about a plane being more scary than a car.  Something to the effect that if your in a car crash, you're on the ground, but if something goes wrong in a plane, you're in the air.

I've never been afraid to fly, mainly because I know that you're much safer in a plane than a car.   Well, according to Wikipedia, a car is about 3 times safer per journey, but a plane is about 4 times safer per hour, and a whopping 60 times safer per mile.

Comment by Plinius on April 16, 2014 at 6:46am

Thanks for the video of the Dutch women, Carl, it's very nice!

 

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