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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Soren Sagan on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by sk8eycat on April 3, 2014 at 11:11am

Welcome back  to deepthought42, and belated greetings to Arp.

This is a safe place for any kind of comments, rants, whatever you need to get off your chest, or just share with friends.  I've never seen any evidence that trolls or snoops/hackers have ever been able to tap into A/N, and we've all said some pretty personal things at one time or another. Not to mention slamming every type of True Believer.

Lately I have been withdrawing into myself here in Beautiful Downtown Burbank, and this is the only place I feel comfortable connecting with real live people with lively minds...instead of getting meaningless platitudes in return, I get sensible and warm comments and advice.

So, welcome, again...pull up a chair, or a giant beanbag, or whatever makes you most comfortable...picture a cozy fire of aromatic wood crackling in the fireplace, and maybe some popcorn (or chili) in a big bowl

DO visit the "FOOD" discussion(s)!

Anything that makes you feel at ease....

Comment by booklover on April 3, 2014 at 8:36am

Good attitude Deepthought!

Hi Arp!

Rainy overcast day here.  Come on Spring!  My daughter is nervous because she's going on a date tonight.  It's not their first date, but other people were around for one date, and the other one was just for coffee during the daytime.  I'm glad she's met someone she likes so far...

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:26am

Oh, and thanks to you too Patricia!

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:24am

Hey, it worked. Thanks Grinning Cat.

Okay, those of you who have seen my name, please refer to me as Arp henceforth. You may continue to use my original name in private messages and places which are not indexed by the search engine.

I just realized if I say something which the theists perceive as offensive and they find it through the search engine, I might be in trouble if they also happen to know me in the real world.

It will be slightly better if my profile doesn't give my identity right away.

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:16am

Changed both, and it works. Thanks, Grinning Cat!

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:11am

I tried that, but I don't see immediately if it worked.

Comment by Grinning Cat on April 3, 2014 at 2:04am

Yes, under "Settings" (upper right, under your name and Inbox/Alerts/Friends), there are two pages where you can change your name here.

Your full name is in the normal "Profile" information (first page of Settings).

Your profile URL (for example http://www.atheistnexus.org/profile/GrinningCat) can be changed in the "My Page" section. (Especially important for people who signed up using their real name, then realize they didn't want to do that!)

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 12:17am

Hi, I was wondering if there was a way to change my user name. Can a admin do that for me?

Comment by deepthought42 on April 2, 2014 at 10:01pm

Oh goodness, I haven't been on here in a long time! Hmm, not much going on at the moment. Ok, not true. My little sister is in treatment for multiple issues and I had to break up with my boyfriend. But, I am ready to shake off the negative feelings and just enjoy my own company (and everyone here). :) I'm a bit anti-social (shy, introverted loner) as well.

Comment by booklover on April 2, 2014 at 9:03am

Okay Carl, and I wondered why you called me Melinda.  Maybe Sybil is a better name, but I don't have different personalities, I just morphed from social to anti-social! ;)  You crack me up. :)

I agree Joan, I am anti-social now.  Except here.  You guys are friends that I look forward to talking with!

 

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