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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz on Thursday. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

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Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 5:20pm

James, "D'oh" is the way Homer Simpson pronounces his exclamation.  It doesn't necessarily mean, "Duh, I (or you) did something stupid."  He uses it constantly for everything.  Pain, surprise, shock...

My Aspie sister watches "The Simpsons" reruns every effing night, and I have to go into my room, shut the door, and put on a soothing CD.  It's all about Homer yelling about something... always. 

Nobody ever understood why I hated "Lucy" and "the Honeymooners" back in the '50s....same reason.  People yelling at each other over everything. 

Comment by James M. Martin on June 2, 2014 at 1:58pm

Minor cavil with the Simpsons illo, Flying Atheist. Whatever happened to the "old" spelling: Duh! When a mentally challenged person says something obvious, we say, "Duh!" ("D'oh" is not only awkwardly spelled, its pronunciation sound like mention of a play putty or what you roll out to make a pie shell.)

Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 10:26am

Not just climate-change deniers...climate and ecological change are what drive evolution...

Comment by Loren Miller on June 2, 2014 at 7:31am

Carl, your quote reminded me of the last words of the liner notes on the first Eric Whitacre CD I ever got:

The effect is often like the one the great Mozart described upon hearing Johann Sebastian Bach's incredible motet, Singet dem Herrn: "it was as if my entire soul was in my ear."

So maybe souls don't exist ... but there is a lot of music out there which can stir us to our core, and I find the choral work of Eric Whitacre, the composer of "A Boy and a Girl," to be emphatically in that set.

Comment by Randall Smith on June 2, 2014 at 7:27am

Since I hardly ever watch FOX, I keep forgetting to tune in Cosmos. Homer says it all.

Comment by Plinius on June 2, 2014 at 12:04am

Beautiful Loren! I'll be very sorry to lose music when my hearing gets worse, but there are years left..

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 1, 2014 at 11:49pm

I fell asleep and didn't wake up until 8:30......half way through Cosmos.  So rather than watch just the second half, I'll watch the whole intact episode tomorrow on my laptop. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 1, 2014 at 11:41pm

That is so beautiful Loren.  Thanks for posting.

I will repeat a quote that I made up myself just a few months ago:

"If there is an entity in existence that truly is the human soul, it's music and art."  --Me (The Flying Atheist)

Comment by Loren Miller on June 1, 2014 at 10:07pm

Just listened to the following ... and as many times as I've heard this piece, I don't know as I've ever been so moved.  Honestly if you don't leak at least a little hearing this ... well, I don't know about you!  [grin!]

Comment by Randall Smith on June 1, 2014 at 7:21am

Happy First Day of June! Summer has officially arrived--calendar wise. Enjoy a churchless Sunday!

 

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