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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Patricia on January 6, 2015 at 2:14am

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:52am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Ohhhh, Carl!  That's sewwww saxy.  I used to listen to a late-night DJ who played that kind of music when I was in high school.   I hung out with some of the band group, and they were always experimenting with jazz.

Later, (almost 10 years) I was dating a fire-fighter who moonlighted as a headwaiter at Shelly's Manne-Hole, and got wrapped up in jazz again.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shelly_Manne

Whew!  Takes me right back.  Thank you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:15am

Carl, a beautiful piece. I love "I don't know why!" The sax sounds wonderful, too. Never heard of Don Byas. Another new artist to put in my music file. 

The bitter cold snapped; we are now at or a tiny bit above freezing. A couple of day of this and the ice will melt on the streets and sidewalks. I expect we will have freezing weather, but for today ... it is not freezing.  

Comment by Patricia on January 6, 2015 at 12:06am

.....and coffee!!!!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 6, 2015 at 12:00am

It's snowing here.  The temperature is 7 F / -14 C.

After reading the posts here it sounds like many of us have the winter blues.  Wish we could all be together in a room and chat with each other with some appropriate music in the background.

Comment by Patricia on January 5, 2015 at 11:08pm

Oh, & I also caught shit from daddio for having the miserable face!

I am somewhat better now, but am still not comfortable with most people, & much prefer being in the background. I seldom initiate any conversation, as I tend to freeze up. I don't like to talk, & much prefer to listen from some corner.

The wedding is going to be uncomfortable because we won't know anyone other than our daughter & her family, we'll be stuck among a bunch of gawdjeezuzz freaks, & we won't be in our own city to get up & leave. I refuse to cause a scene at a wedding, although head bowing & praying will be out. We will be staying in a hotel & using taxis though so we won't risk exposure to anything for 24/7 for 3 days.

Comment by Dyslexic's DOG on January 5, 2015 at 10:52pm

Well Patricia, I used to be considered a people person, I can go anywhere and casually start a conversation with anybody about anything, too often I instigate the conversation. Yet lately I find myself avoiding the usual haunts but, still, I could be in a supermarket and start a discussion about anything with total strangers and within a few minutes cover a wide range of topics.

As I tend to drift from one subject to another very quickly.

Mostly I avoid religion, especially during religious festive periods.

Those total strangers often become acquaintances and will acknowledge me every time I see them from then on.

Probably stems from my first job as a salesman, selling chemicals and farm supplies.

So often I had to pretend to be knowledgeable on veterinary supplies, but If the answers were not on the packets (which I memorized), then I would tell them to get their vet's opinion.

Comment by k.h. ky on January 5, 2015 at 9:24pm
Patricia, that wedding invitation made me laugh. It's so much like what I live with in this area. It could have been printed here.
My gson got me a sweatshirt for xmas that reads Hell For Certain with Kentucky printed beneath. It's actually the name of a town here. I love it. It seems to offend all the fundies.
Comment by Patricia on January 5, 2015 at 9:22pm

Thanks Melinda.

At least you had a loving mother. My childhood had nothing like that from any of the relatives, & being morons on dear ol' mummy's side & rather scummy on dear ol' daddy's side, there were plenty of relatives.

None were here in BC though, so I was mostly alone or being in trouble over some damn infraction or other. My pets, music, & books were my buddies. I never made friends easily & I'm sure some of the kids parents sort of cocked their eyebrows at the oddball moron kid in the neighborhood.

Finally finding out what the word atheism really meant showed me where I fit, but I'm still not a people person.

 

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