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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Randall Smith on Thursday

Felaine, you had better stay! I miss Mindy (Booklover, who left in a huff), and Carl, who's dealing with health issues. (I wonder how he's doing?)

I have many reasons for opposing home schooling, but they aren't really "the socialization" reasons, although that's important. For one, science (my subject) has access to tools for many lab experiments--not found at home. Teachers are trained in and have greater knowledge of their subject matter. If I home schooled my kids, I would be deficient in art, history, and other areas. Plus, no sports, no school plays, no band, etc.

One of the biggest reasons parents choose home-schooling is the religion factor. They don't want their children exposed to the truth--evolution, in particular. (There are many other reasons: bullying, eliteism, antisocialism, etc.) 

Comment by Plinius on Thursday

I wasn't homeschooled but I was just as isolated as homeschoolers because of my parents' religion. I feel children should interact with all sorts of people and learn to stand their own ground. I tried to find positive sides of homeschooling to complete the picture but I didn't hear many positive comments.

Thanks Gerald, I'm glad of it. 

Comment by sk8eycat on Wednesday

Back in the 1940s we used to play in the street and vacant lots around here after school..."Kick the Can" and "Statues." 

Now, I NEVER see or hear kids playing outdoors in the neighborhood, unless someone is having a private pool party.  Everything else is so over-organized that I often wonder when kids get to use their imaginations.  If they have any.  (I took ballet lessons 5 days a week after school, but I still had time to play invent-your-own games with the other neighborhood kids....or row all over Balboa Bay by myself when we went there for the summers.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on Wednesday

Sometimes kiddos homeschooled  through grade school show up in high school and earn a black belt in promiscuity with lightening speed. Missing all that socialization, even such as it is, may not be an entirely good thing.

Comment by sk8eycat on Wednesday

Randall...I'm with you on the subject of home schooling.  Even if it's NOT religion-based, there's something anti-social about it.

In science fiction from the 1950s and '60s, there were a lot of stories about kids "going to school" on computer-like devices at home.  If it was an important part of the story, I always felt sorry for the isolated kids.  (Where's the playground?  Or the level spot where the girls always played jacks during recess?  Hell, WHEN and where IS recess?  Assemblies?  Sock hops in the gym?  What gym?)

Comment by Gerald Payne on Wednesday

Plinius if you go to Politics, Economics, and Religion you'll find it's more a comedy of errors than using substances.

Comment by Plinius on Wednesday

Sk8eycat - I don't know what substances Gerald uses and I don't understand his posts. Never mind him, I want you to stay.

Comment by Idaho Spud on Wednesday

I enjoy your posts sk8eycat.

Comment by sk8eycat on Wednesday

@Gerald Payne:

WTF have I done to offend you so? 

Medicareless is NOT free, and that is all I am eligible for.

I know I am useless, but physician-assisted suicide is illegal in California, or I would have been out of here years ago.

If you all want me to leave the Nexus, take a vote, and I will abide by the results.  With a few exceptions, this site is getting too nasty for me.

Comment by Plinius on Wednesday

Went out for an hour and now it works again - thanks!

Why are you opposed, Randall? 

 

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