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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat 16 hours ago. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Patricia 20 hours ago. 4 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Tuesday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 21. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 20. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on April 16, 2014 at 10:09pm

I signed and forwarded the link...I also watched some of Pat Condell's videos. I keep forgetting to check his site to see what's new. 

Ironically, the latest issue of Freethought Today has an article by one of FFRF's staff attorneys about the history of blasphemy laws in the colonies, the states, and the ones that are still on the books in many states.

The first "victimless crime." 

Comment by booklover on April 16, 2014 at 10:01pm
Signed and shared Grinning Cat.
Comment by Grinning Cat on April 16, 2014 at 4:48pm

It's an important petition, which I too signed.

Here's a direct link to it at change.org: "Human Rights for Atheists and Agnostics - End Blasphemy Laws"

It petitions Navanethem Pillay, the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights, to "Amend Articles 13 (b), 55 (c) & 76 (c) of the 'Charter of the United Nations and Statute of the International Court of Justice,' to include freedom from religion." The current language in those articles of the Charter says "without distinction as to race, sex, language, or religion."

Comment by booklover on April 16, 2014 at 3:23pm

I signed it Patricia.  Yes, it's very important.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 16, 2014 at 2:53pm

Patricia, thanks for posting the petition. Signed and Shared.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 16, 2014 at 2:19pm

Patricia, thanks for posting that petition.  I gladly signed it.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 16, 2014 at 12:53pm

Spud, even when I was still going to church (in my teens), I never really felt the need to praise an all-powerful, super-intelligent being.  I always thought that the "Holy, holy, holy" songs we sang, and the grovelling prayers that were intoned would make any self-respecting intelligence sick. (We didn't actually kneel...it was a Bapnit church, but I went to plenty of Catholic weddings... so I knew their "drill."  Stand up, sit down, fight-fight-fight!)

But then I don't even like grovelling dogs...the kind that come snuggle up to your feet with big begging eyes after you've scolded them for not using their dog door to pee outside instead of on the furniture.

The ONLY time I've ever had a cat pee on furniture (my bed), he thought I had caused the Sylmar quake, and the very strong aftershocks, and he was punishing me for keeping him in the house while it shook.  He was used to going outside, and he disappeared for 3 days after the initial quake.  I didn't want to let him out after that....but he did get out about 3 months later, and never came back.  I looked for him for about 6 weeks, and then gave up...there were packs of dogs that had gotten loose and gone feral, and.... they were hungry. 

Sheesh!  That was 1970, and it still hurts.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:34am

Correction: My personality is NOT that of a worshiper.....

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:33am

I don't worship anything either, and didn't even when I was a believer.  Momonism didn't stress worship as much as other religions.  Besides that, my personality is that of a worshiper, brown-noser, yes-man, or flatterer.  I'm not even greatly impressed with most things.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 16, 2014 at 10:12am

Felaine, thanks for the reference to filksongs.  Looks like some fun songs there.  In the Old Time Religion song, the verse that made me laugh-out-load was:

Shall we sing a verse for Venus,     
Of the Gods she is the meanest,      
Cause she bit me on my...elbow        
And it's good enough for me.      

But, I haven't been able to find My god's better than your god.

 

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