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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 14, 2014 at 10:38pm

Today, I saw a woman walking a cat on a leash. Now, that is an idea and perhaps a way to meet nice young men. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 14, 2014 at 10:38pm

Augggggh!  I have played Dallas, Amarillo, Lubbock, Austin, and Port Arthur TX...aside from the general attitude of the 2nd Amendment defenders, the place was too humid for me!  (We played a brand new arena in Dallas; as soon as the doors were opened, thousands of crickets invaded the place.  I think they liked the coolth.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 14, 2014 at 10:19pm

Don't feel bad about starting out as a Republican, Felaine.  After I graduated from college I considered moving to Texas!  That notion to me today is laughably appalling.   

Comment by sk8eycat on September 14, 2014 at 10:13pm

Yep.  So how did we get stuck with bullshit like the National Day of Prayer, and "s'whelp me, ghod" at the end of a government swearing-in?  (In California, jurors are NOT required to place hands on any book, or swear any oath ...which is also verboten in the NT...we can affirm if we want to.)

This crap has been going on since Eisenhower....but it didn't get really intense until Reagan started inviting bottom-feeders like Fatty Falwell to the White House.  The GOP was taking over the fundies as much as the Family Fellowship was taking over the Party.

Would you believe I started out a Republican?  MOI?  Madame la Sorciere?  C'est vrai.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 14, 2014 at 9:51pm

That's it, Felaine.

And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocritesare: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues andin the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 14, 2014 at 9:44pm

Matthew 6:5-15, I think.  Scathingly brilliant.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 14, 2014 at 9:25pm

I can't remember chapter and verse but there is a Bible quote where Jesus condemns public prayer. I'll try to find it.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 14, 2014 at 5:32pm

Nick, to me it's one thing when someone always says "grace" in their own home, and quite another when they make a big public to-do of it in a restaurant.  Especially if it's crowded...that's when I stare into space, or the parking lot, or the inside of my head.  Or pray that nobody I know is there, and sees me sitting with the babbler and his wife.

IMO praying out loud in a restaurant is just a wee bit arrogant... show-off-y.  Yanno? 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 14, 2014 at 3:30pm

I think I've mentioned an excellent book titled Dining By Rail; all about the extraordinary service on passenger trains in the USA ....pre-Amtrak.

One thing the author mentions is that a few railroads would have a card on each table with (sometimes) three types (Jewish, Catholic, Protestant) of "blessings" to help the diner  get into the proper mood for the meal.

I get SO embarrassed when I go out to eat with some friends from high school, and the husband (a Baptist minister) delivers a prayer longer than most sermons.  I just look out the window till he's finished.  (He never "blesses" the servers, cooks, farmers, etc., but he does tip.  He's done extraordinarily well in the god biz.))

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 14, 2014 at 2:18pm

I'll second that, Ian. My favorite pre-meal prayer is "Grab it and growl."

 

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