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Comment by Randall Smith on September 6, 2014 at 7:23am
I've been amazed at the amount of media coverage the death of Joan Rivers has received. For me, I could hardly stand to look at her, let alone listen to her. I'm not a big fan of loud, obnoxious comedians that put people down. That type of humor is irritating to me. But, to each his own.
Comment by Plinius on September 6, 2014 at 6:41am

I can't read everything Laura wrote, but I think she is right, Joan; strictness, especially when applied by a loving person, is a great help.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:15am

Mindy, I enjoy the Ricky Gervais statement.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:13am

Mindy! Looks as though you are getting some nice atheist friends that you can actually see! Nothing wrong with virtual friends, and it is pleasing, indeed, to have ones with whom you can sit an chat. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2014 at 3:10am

I know I am shamelessly sharing this response of Laura, my daughter, when I apologized to her for being so strict with her when she was little. 

Laura wrote: "The strictness came in handy for me as an adult though, because I don't settle for 'good enough'. I take pride in what I have and what I do and I attribute that to how you and Dad raised us. I wouldn't trade those years in for anything! I do think that I flourished as a teenager from the more collaborative approach because it helped me to think and act as a team-player in life, realizing that my actions could affect more than just me. You also guided us through our teenage years, when we were seeking independence, in a way that stimulated personal responsibility from within us. I couldn't have asked for a better mom!

Comment by booklover on September 5, 2014 at 2:21pm
If anyone doesn't speak to you, Joan, they are surely missing out on a relationship with an interesting, and caring person!
I got invited to go out for dinner with my Atheist friend, and her Atheist friend, who I like. It will be a nice evening talking to 2 nice women whom I won't offend when I speak my mind!
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 5, 2014 at 1:09pm

Randy, I know the feeling all too well. Thankfully, I got over it. Now I stand tall, proud, confidence, comfortable and state, "I am an atheist!" No one has fainted, or hit me, or usually don't respond back. I do notice our conversations are short afterwards. 

It feels good to state, emphatically, that I believe there is no god. 

My cousins, one married to a Lutheran minister and is often depressed and sounds highly stressed, and others stopped communicating with me on Facebook and that is their choice, not mine. I think they are missing out on an interesting relative. However, the grapevine always worked extremely well in the past and I am sure will function quite well. 

Comment by booklover on September 5, 2014 at 12:10pm
Yes, it's not Doctors Without Borders. It's a religious group. I don't know what her editor would cut out of her article. She just didn't want to talk religion with them. She can't really give them her opinion since it's for work. It's just a work-day she's not looking forward to.
Comment by sk8eycat on September 5, 2014 at 12:05pm

Hmmmm... there are medical "missionaries" who are entirely secular; Doctors Without Borders is one such organization. 

Has your friend found out which type of "missionaries" she would have to write about?  Maybe she could drop a line or two into the article about DWB....???

Comment by booklover on September 5, 2014 at 10:38am
Glad you guys liked the quote from Ricky Gervais! He has some good ones!
Funny, a writer friend just called me to bitch, because she has to write an article about the missionaries who are going to help with the Ebola outbreak. She doesn't want to interview them. She's an Atheist, and she doesn't want to hear about "god" this, and "god" that. She said if she wrote what she really thought about there being a god that let the Ebola virus exist, she'd get fired.
 

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