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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Fall is already here--do you celebrate the holiday season?

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre 17 hours ago. 35 Replies

I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

Local Color in the Neighborhood

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Oct 22. 27 Replies

It's getting on toward peak color season here on the North Coast.  I'm lucky enough to have some truly beautiful examples of it literally right outside my door and a short walk around.  So I thought I'd break out the Olympus and record some…Continue

Tags: trees, local color, autumn, fall

I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Oct 3. 10 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

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Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 3:55pm

Brent, each person has to make their own decisions about how to respond to bullies. 

As for myself, every bully I ever stood up to backed down like a splat of snot. I have stood up in court when challenged on a child abuse case, I have faced down a plumber who told me he knew what he was doing, when he clearly was making a mess of the project. 

I guess fear goes after one has acquiesced as I did for 38 years. One day my dad came at me with his fist when we disagreed on how I was to manage my kids. I was 38, my kids were 10 years. old. We had run from an abusive husband and father. As my father approached me with his fist drawn back, I, sitting, lifted both my feet and shoved him as hard as I could. He did a back flop, the other side of a belly flop, and it knocked him out. When he came to consciousness I was standing over him and told him if her ever touched me I would sue him for everything he has and see that he got jail time. 

That was the end of my fear. Once one crosses the line of being a victim to being in charge of ones' life, everything changes.

I am smart enough to know there are some situations over which I have no control, but with a little forethought, one can usually dodge the bullets and blows. 

Stand tall, head held high, shoulders firm, feet anchored to the ground, a spine of steel and face the foe with competence and confidence. You do not exist to be a victim, nor a bully. You are human being worthy of respect and able to take care of yourself. 

There are times you need help, or a shoulder to cry on. That is perfectly healthy and appropriate. So pick your friends carefully and get rid of the bullies in your life. 
Happy Days! 

Comment by sk8eycat on April 8, 2014 at 3:53pm

Patricia, Joan, and Spud...I recommend a daily visit to LOLcats (or the Hotdogs page) until you get tired of it.  Some of the other divisions of Cheezburger are...well...sick, but they may occasionally give some people a laugh or two.  But the cats are still the best for giggles and AWWWWs.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 1:17pm

Loren, Loren, Loren! You did it! Good for you. 

Thanks for the lead to your blog! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 12:00pm

Patricia, I love it. You are all decked out, even with a red flag. What a way to go. I will be thinking of you as you scoot by the daffodils and tulips. "Happy Trails to You!"

Comment by sk8eycat on April 8, 2014 at 11:29am

It's been said before in here, and elsewhere, that family is the people you happen to be born into; friends are the family you choose.  Or something like that.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:10am

Hi Mindy, nice to meet you. =)  Hope all is going well with you.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:06am

Thanks Ian. No, it hasn't been easy the last year-plus, but I (and my brother) have been hanging in as best as we can. We'll be all right, no matter what.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:04am

Don't blame you Spud. I'm pretty non-confrontational too, for the most part. 

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:03am

Thanks Flying. =)  It's been a rough year-plus, no doubt. I'm glad my sister thought enough to ask me to help out with mom. It can be a bit of a strain at times, with the shuttling back-and-forth and what not, but I'm still glad to lend her a hand.

I have NO idea what that guy was so upset about either. I asked him why he objected to David's stuff and the plugging of his radio show, but he never answered AFAIK. Oh well...

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 8, 2014 at 10:59am

I also avoid confrontation most of the time.

 

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