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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 14, 2014 at 12:53am

Patricia, thanks for alerting me to the other two videos. I just watched them. Women and children need laws written with their flourishing in mind and law enforcement to make sure that all those violations are prosecuted. 

It seems unlikely the women who say they are happy with the situation and have no complaints have no idea of other options that might exist for them. If they are adults, they may have a right to live in a polygamous marriage if it is legal, but I can't see how it would benefit society. 

There are two problems I see, 

Gender disparity concern, first, is several females sharing one male. Females are treated as baby factories.
Second, is not enough females for males. China's one child rule resulted in the aborting or killing of female babies, leaving a surplus of males. 

"Future challenges for China will be the gender disparity. According to the 2010 census, males account for 51.27% of China's 1.34 billion people, while females made up 48.73% of the total. The sex ratio (the number of males for each female in a population) at birth was 118.06 boys to every 100 girls (54.14%) in 2010, higher than the 116.86 (53.89%) of 2000, but 0.53 points lower than the ratio of 118.59 (54.25%) in 2005.[5] In most western countries the sex ratio at birth is around 105 boys to 100 girls (51.22%). At the moment there are about 9 million more boys than girls in China."

Gender disparity concern

this is about a third of the way into the article. 

Chinese Women by Age Cohorts

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 10:15pm

Patricia, the video came through nicely. I can't even imagine how this case could take so long. What about the safety and health of the girls? Are there any reports on them. Did they have children? What was the age of the youngest mother? He claimed to only hold hands and I find that highly unlikely. One of the girls involved between the two families was 12 years old, if I remember correctly.

Just imagine them taking underage girls and marrying them off. The video revealed happy children and women. I wonder about their physical and mental health?  

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 9:52pm

Bertold, here is my playlist of Phil Zuckerman. Enjoy!

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 9:47pm

Carl, I kept watching to see how they were going to lower that big piece of what looked like concrete. I did hear a curse word, can't remember what it was, but it was not a welcome sound coming from one of them. Also, the fellow with the torch touched a hot spot on the tool. He would have to have good reflex control. I would throw up my hands and lose my balance.

I wonder if their wives and children know the risks these two men take to put food on their table and roofs over their heads.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 9:41pm

Patricia, I wonder how those young girls are doing? Are there children involved?

Polygamy charges approved against leaders of religious sect in Boun...

Polygamist Winston Blackmore

Photograph by: Jason Payne, Vancouver Sun

Looks like anyone grandpa, kind, gentle, responsible, honorable, NOT! 

"Canada’s most notorious polygamist, Winston Blackmore, was charged with one count of polygamy. Listed in the indictment against the former bishop are the names of 24 women who were in “a form of polygamy or practised a kind of conjugal union.”

"Among the women listed, 10 of them were under the age of 18. However, special prosecutor Peter Wilson did not approve any criminal charges for sexual exploitation."

Why not? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 13, 2014 at 9:35pm

Lauren Bacall was one of those Hollywood types that was the epitome of class, grace and dignity.  And a mesmerizing actor. 

Joan, I can't even begin to imagine how companies recruit and train people to do such crazy jobs.  I hope they well-paid for their services.  If it was me up there, the people down at street level would probably be covered in my vomit.   

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 13, 2014 at 9:22pm

Joan - you are a wizard with the video clips! I also really enjoyed the Phil Zuckerman piece you posted. I love that guy. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 9:16pm

Carl, I wonder what these guys do for fun! Likely not listen to birds chirping in the forest. 

Why would anyone take on such a job? Do they like their work? Do they like each other? Do they ever lose their tempers? 

Most unwelcome message from one to the other, "Oh! Oh!"

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 13, 2014 at 9:10pm

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 13, 2014 at 8:08pm

>Another loss......Lauren Bacall.

"You know how to whistle, dontcha? Just put your lips together and blow.

 

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