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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 6, 2014 at 2:08am

I hope Napoleon is all right as well.  I like him because he's a rebel and a lightning rod for tender emotions.  lol 

Comment by Plinius on August 6, 2014 at 2:03am

Good you're back Ian, and I like the poem!

Napoleon has disappeared from AN. I hope he's all right.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 11:52pm

Loren, I hope you aren't in danger of having water problems like they are having in Toledo.  They were even testing the water here in Chicago from Lake Michigan as a result. 

Hello, Ian.  I noticed you've been absent, but you have redeemed yourself with a thought-provoking poem.  I hope all is well with you.

Seems we haven't heard from Steph or Napoleon in quite some time.  Perhaps they have been active in other groups on Atheist/Nexus, but I haven't seen their names popping up elsewhere. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 11:00pm

Patricia, there is whimsey in the pictures you share. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:57pm

Carl, thanks for the memories! 

My very favorite cat was black, named Ebony. She came to our door as a very young cat, malnourished, had infected eyes and had been mauled by something. We nursed her back to health and she turned out to be the best cat I ever enjoyed. She was an excellent mother and adopted all the kittens that our calico cat abandoned at birth. Ebony and Calico made the journey with us 2,000 miles, each with a new litter of kittens. They seemed to have kittens at the same time and Ebony nursed both litters each time. Ebony became very cranky and after I had her spayed, she was a playful cat again. Too much raising young can be hard on cats as well as human women. We never had problems finding good homes for all the kittens. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:48pm

Patricia, it is so much fun seeing your new computer's abilities and you doing so much that is interesting. You would make a good graphic designer! 

Comment by Ian Mason on August 5, 2014 at 10:32pm

Hello folks. I hope all are well. I've been doing other things for a while so haven't been here.

Found this poem that I'd like to share.

Humanity by Gregory Corso

What simple profundities 
What profound simplicities 
To sit down among the trees 
and breathe with them 
in murmur brool and breeze — 

And how can I trust them 
who pollute the sky 
with heavens 
the below with hells 

Well, humankind, 
I’m part of you 
and so my son 

but neither of us 
will believe 
your big sad lie

Comment by Loren Miller on August 5, 2014 at 8:55pm

Meant to put this up earlier today, but what the heck.  Here's something to wake you up Tuesday morning - a little Don Ross:

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2014 at 8:26pm

Dog prejudice goes WAYYYY back in history, and perhaps prehistory. Especially against black dogs.  The Romans of the Republic era believed that black dogs originated from the "underworld," and  of course black cats were believed to be witchs' "familiars.  Whatever that means.

Some shelters refuse to adopt  out black cats and dogs from late September to early November because some superstitious idiots torture and kill them....especially here in SoCal where there is a large Latino population.

I currently have an orange cat and a fat black cat ....perfect for Halloween, but they are strictly indoor cats.  Funny thiing is that the Black Blimp has totally adopted my red-headed sister.  They make a very striking "couple,". 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 7:29pm

So, k.h., are you on a jury or did you get released? 

 

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