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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 21. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:49pm

I enjoyed the cuttlefish video as well.  I had to save the picture of that cute baby.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:44pm

I agree with you peeps that there should be more celebrations and emphasis on the good happenings, and less on the bad.  I also think that when bad news is reported, it should include the odds of it happening to us. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:39pm

I do remember being fascinated with trains as a child, and spending quite a bit of time by the tracks.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:37pm

Carl, I don't remember riding a train, but I probably did once or twice when I was young.  As an adult, I'm sure I would enjoy the experience a great deal.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:31pm

Mindy, I very much like "Suck On What?".  Very good response to the nutbags.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2014 at 2:19pm

Carl! That is a wonderful bit of news about restored railroad cars! We travelled between Spokane and my birthplace, Tekoa, WA by railroad; I remember them fondly. Those railroad tracks have all been pulled up now, made into nature and bike trails in some places. 

We didn't have meals, it was only a 50 mile trip, but it was nice to rock along and look at the territory. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 12, 2014 at 10:28am

@sk8eycat - so true. I can understand hating someone because they've done something to you, but I don't understand hating people for who they are. It makes absolutely no sense. I did not put in an order to be born of an alcoholic father and a black sheep mother in 1950 in the beefheart of the Midwest. No one gets to choose who they are; we're all "thrown" into this world.

A big part of the problem is certain manipulative types are masters at deflecting blame and getting the public to attribute all the ills of the world to people unlike themselves. It's a sad state of affairs.

Comment by Plinius on September 12, 2014 at 10:27am
Comment by Plinius on September 12, 2014 at 10:25am

Some people are working hard to spread the hate, but we keep on weeding...

Comment by sk8eycat on September 12, 2014 at 10:18am

Joan, I think that racial nastiness is coming to the surface again...it's never really gone away...because certain bigots a) never expected Obama to be re-elected 2 years ago, and b) DID expect him to fall on his face trying to clean up the Cheney-Bush mess. (And I also suspect they expected him to be assassinated long before now.) 

They are taking their frustrations out on anyone with dark skin... especially the helpless ones.  And they have never, ever figured out that neither skin nor culture have anything to do with intelligence and ability, no matter what their eyes and ears tell them.

It's going to take several more generations to weed out the hatefulness, if it can be done at all.  We won't live to see it happen.

 

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