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blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 5 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

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Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat Sep 23. 8 Replies

"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Ebola Drug From BC

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Ebola Researcher from BC

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Ozone Recovering?

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2014 at 10:23am

Ian, thanks for your very kind comment. I know everyone is getting sick of reading my story, but every once in a while a new way of telling it appears, and so I give it another exposure. 

This time I wanted to reveal how supposedly negative feeling and situations can be turned into victories. For example, when I have a feeling that hurts, i.e. fear, anger, grief, I get out of it by thinking of ways to turn the energy into something whereby I come out a winner. An example, my former husband had many qualities, one of them being able to support us very well with boats, cars, ski trips, elegant holidays to Acapulco, and put a lovely roof over our heads and fill our bellies and take care of health and education costs. In other words, We had financial security. We didn't have safety and stability. 

Don knew how important financial security was for me so he refused to pay child support, thinking I would "come to my senses" and "stop trying to wear the pants of the family." Oh yes, he had control issues. 

So with no income, no education, no job prospects other than minimum wage jobs, I supported us and we grew happier and healthier, in spite of not having enough money. Our garden was beautiful, the kids and I were cleaning up the condemned house and it was becoming a beautiful home. 

I won in the long run. He still had his boats and several cars and trucks to haul around his motorcycles and took fancy vacations. 

Now tell me, which of us had a "successful" life?

Comment by booklover on April 19, 2014 at 7:36am

Thanks Chris and Ian. :) 

Joan, that's funny you found a pic of a hurt thumb!

Felaine, beautiful skater!

Loren, that food looks delicious!

Everyone have a good weekend not celebrating easter! :)  I think might eat a piece of "easter candy" though.  I'll just call it birthday candy!

Comment by Randall Smith on April 19, 2014 at 7:32am

NOW I realize what sk8eycat stands for! Thanks for the hint. And you all can call me Randy. Only my father calls me by my given name. Have a great weekend (despite it being Easter).

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on April 19, 2014 at 2:41am

Are you the skater sk8eycat ? Is that what you mean ?

Comment by Patricia on April 19, 2014 at 1:48am

That ''young ice-skater'' is sk8eycat Felaine, Napoleon.

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on April 19, 2014 at 1:39am

The word 'spiral' can be a noun or a verb like a pattern or a process of progressive deterioration, or winding around a central axis in a widening or tightening manner.

So the young ice-skater is both spiralling and creating a spiral.

'Spirals' is the name of a Viking Trance track I am working on for a video.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 19, 2014 at 1:11am

I thought THIS was a "spiral."

Comment by Napoleon Bonaparte on April 19, 2014 at 1:07am

Viking Trance - Spirals - Coming soon to Atheist Nexus

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2014 at 12:42am

Have a great day, Mindy!

Comment by Ian Mason on April 18, 2014 at 10:21pm

Have a great day, Mindy. Enjoy your heathen feasting.

That's one heck of a life, Joan. You've stood up to and accomplished more than most people. I take my hat off to you.

r.e. number plates: "all is vanity and vexation of spirit". Ecclesiastes.

Loren, I don't know how doctors manage that contradiction but my last girlfriend's mother was a retired M.D. who'd worked in research AND took a theology M.A. to while away the time as a pensioner. Mind you, she also cheated at board games :-D

 

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