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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith on Wednesday. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on October 15, 2014 at 1:06am

Has anyone posted this before?

Comment by Randall Smith on October 14, 2014 at 8:12am

Joan, your son's job description is a little more complicated  than what mine was: "teacher"! Impressive sounding, anyway.

Ian, my daughter (age 39) just went throught the same thing, and is now unemployed. Hope your daughter has better luck finding a job.

After reading a new book by Marc Dunkelman, The Vanishing Neighborhood, I realize my friends are not my real neighbors like they were for my parents. The definition of "neighborliness" has evolved dramatically over the the course of several decades. As a kid, I remember sharing meals, baby sitting, going places, etc., with our neighbors. Today, being "neighborly" means leaving those around you in peace. You're friendly, but detached.

Consequently, or perhaps a reason for that change, is the internet. Facebook, twitter, blogs have become the centerpiece for our relationships and friends. True, I share more information with you all than I do with any of my so-called true friends and neighbors. I'm okay with that, although I miss the "good ol' days". 

Comment by Plinius on October 14, 2014 at 6:40am

A really impressive list, Joan!

Must have been a nice family party, Patricia! No ring for him or is that not the custom with you?

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:42pm

Sorry for the mistakes. Just woken up from my day's sleep. Yes. blAming and there.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:40pm

"Gift" in Danish means poison AND married. No comment from me.

Glad to hear that Dale is picking up.

Yes, Joan that's an impressive list.

My daughter has resigned from her job as she thought the dept. boss was an idiot, bleming her for things that weren't her fault After an interview with a senior boss, she's been offered something in another dept, so someone up their knows that there's something wrong at the local level. She's also decided definitely to move to Copenhagen in the new year when her bloke has finished his studies. There are greater opportunities in the capital for both of them.

Autumn has come to Denmark, with wind and rain but also occasional bouts of sunshine. It looks like I will have a small second crop of green cherry tomatoes, just right for pickles.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 13, 2014 at 12:48pm

Hi everyone! It is a blue sky day, cold, I'm feeling splendid and ready to get out into the garden. Hope everyone is doing well, has loads of people you like and enjoy around you. 

I haven't read the morning news yet, so thought I should get my greeting in before I ty to start solving all the problems of the world. 

My previous post this morning is my son, Craig's work background summary. I hope you are as impressed as I. I discovered it while I was looking for an old college friend. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 13, 2014 at 12:44pm

This looks impressive to me, does it to anyone else? 

Technology Architecture
Account Acquisition/Management
Product Roll-out
International Business
System Installation/Integration
Post-Sales Support
Team Leadership

Specialties: Theory, design, technical presentation and configuration of Core, Edge and Access networks. Manage customer projects from inception to completion.

BGP, EIGRP, Frame Relay, MPLS, MPLS-TE, OSPF, iSCSI SANs, WAN Optimization

Comment by sk8eycat on October 13, 2014 at 11:59am

Dale looks like a cutie-pie!  We have a black female short-hair...who looks like a blimp.  She has really bonded with my sister (who also looks like a blimp.)

"Gift" means "poison" in German?  THAT is fascinating!  It's sorta like the Hebrew word that has been mistranslated for centuries as "witch;" it really means "poisoner."

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 13, 2014 at 11:24am

There are times when you SHOULD look a gift horse in the mouth. (BTW "gift" in German means poison.)

Comment by sk8eycat on October 13, 2014 at 11:21am

Bertold, Thank for the comments re: Macs & PCs.  Now that I think about it, the Mac fans I know ARE more interested in the artistic side of things, while I have spent most of my adult life (not counting the years I was skating) as a bookkeeper/payroll clerk/tax preparer.  And I still occasionally do a few little jobs for friends that require using Word and Excel.

That's one reason I'm so annoyed that this laptop has no 10-key calculator pad.  The tech guy who is helping/trying to get my Dell up and running again brings his own PC laptop with him, and it does have a 10-key pad, so there's definitely room for everything if the designer really thinks about what's needed.

But this Mac was a "gift." Used by someone I thought was a friend for 3 years until she switched to a iPad.  She asked if I wanted this Mac, and I decided to give it a try as a backup....so she shipped it down here from Oregon.  Ok, fine.

3 months after she did that, she phoned me...ON MY BIRTHDAY...(which she knew)...and asked if I had mastered the thing yet.  When I said, "not really," she got very hissy, and told me to return it so she could donate it to her garden club.  I could not pay for the packing and shipping, and I asked her if I could keep trying.  Dead silence. It's been nearly a year, and I haven't heard Word One from her since.

Maybe I should post this in the discussion about forgiving people.  My answer would be, "No.  Not really.  Not when you find out someone thinks of you as a servant."  (I started out 20+ years ago as her part-time dog sitter when she still lived in Pasadena.)

 

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