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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Grinning Cat on September 8, 2014 at 11:00am

Loren, that photo shows a use of "liberal" that's new to me.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 8, 2014 at 10:16am

Jibo actually exists? It acts like intelligence lives within a machine. I can see all kinds of uses that would facilitate my #1concern, family violence. If episodes could be recorded, perhaps both the abuser and abused would see the idiocy of dominator and victim; perhaps others would believe how bad a situation is; perhaps a professional could unwind the triggers and demonstrate ways to make healthy changes. 

Now, as to fun! Oh boy! I could get all the photos I want and from the events I want to record. l could show you that flock of goldfinch without startling them away by my movement. 

Where did you find this Lore? Wherever, I want to subscribe. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2014 at 10:10am

Loren, there's a humanoid robot built by Honda, called ASIMO...for Asimov?  Cute, but I'd like one that can be pre-programmmed to clean litter boxes, dust, vacuum, test and correct the pool water, and do all the other household jobs that I hate.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReN2l816L8k

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 8, 2014 at 10:05am

This is my kind of thinking, don't mess around with nice words, it just encourages them to keep trying. I'm sharing 

And I was able to open both photos. 

Comment by Loren Miller on September 8, 2014 at 9:25am

And now for something COMPLETELY different:

JIBO, The World's First Family Robot!

Comment by Loren Miller on September 8, 2014 at 8:26am

Hmmm, broken link, yet when I click on it, it works.  Ooooooooooooooooooooookay, let's try this again, just for fun:

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 8, 2014 at 8:14am

@ Loren--

Love it! It's kind of like Duck Dynasty in reverse.

Comment by Loren Miller on September 8, 2014 at 7:55am

Seen by a friend of mine while vacationing in Maine:


Whatcha think?  I got a chuckle out of it!

Comment by Plinius on September 8, 2014 at 3:21am

Grinning Cat, I don't have a driver's licence! =^.^=

But I always have a donor codicil with me, so if I'm hit by the tram they can start recycling at once.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 7, 2014 at 11:38pm

k.h. ky, I'm glad you don't agree with me. Of course, you are correct! Carl should do whatever works for him. If whining, pouting, asking "why me", or sitting on a pity-potty works for him then he should do whatever. 

Thoughts, words and actions of a victim pull a person down faster than anything I know. Depression is a great killer and the way to become depressed and anxious is to feel, think and act like a victim. 

Change the language/change the feeling. Give it a try. Talk to yourself using negative frames and see how quickly you go into the dumps. Using pro-active language, such as, "I can do this!" or "Just get through one more minute/hour/day ..." or "This challenge is real and I am up to it!" brings better outcomes for seriously ill people. 

If a seriously sick person needs to vent, we are strong enough to walk that walk with him or her. If that same person wants to mobilize all his or her resources toward flourishing, then language can facilitate it.   

I know I sound tough, and that is what healing is all about., Kidney failure, cancer, infections and diseases need a kind of toughness to make it over the hump. As participant observers we can hold their hands, listen to their feelings, hear their struggles, pay attention to their fears, respect their anger, appreciate their sadness, be sensitive to their grief, sit with them through treatments, encourage them and affirm them as being up to the tasks. 

 

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