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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by The Flying Atheist 17 hours ago

Hey Everybody.  Greetings to all of you. 

I'm sorry for being so absent from here.  I can't believe how time-consuming not working can be.  Dialysis three times a week takes a lot of time.  The treatment, after being hooked up to the machine, is 3-1/2 hours alone.  It takes about 15 minutes to set up and then another 15 minutes to unhook afterward.  That's four hours total.  Then add 30 minutes to drive there and 30 minutes to drive home.  It's almost as long as working a part-time job! 

I have to say, I'm feeling REALLY great......and I haven't even had my kidney transplant yet.  I already feel like a new man.  I had a recent follow-up appointment with my cardiologist, the first seeing him since my heart surgery in March.  He is extremely pleased with my progress and my healing.  He wishes all his patients did so well, he said.  I couldn't be more pleased myself.  He explained to me that apparently initial tests didn't show just how sick I was.  I feel very lucky to have such a positive outcome.  Between kidney failure, a heart attack, a mild stroke, lungs filled with fluid, and a enlarged heart with a faulty valve, I could have "exited the building" just like Elvis at any time.      

I'm also doing daily exercising to strengthen my legs.  They are still quite weak due to my kidney disease.  That really won't change much until after my transplant, but I'm trying to keep myself from failing further.  I am still very unsteady on my feet and I have a problem with balance.  Around the house I'm OK, but when I go for walks outside I use a cane.  It helps me from falling. 

Chris and Randy, thank you for the messages for thinking about me.  As I read through all the posts here, it seems as if everyone is doing well.....except for Ruth.

Ruth, I'm sorry to hear about all the problems your husband is experiencing and how that affects you.  I'm thinking about you!

Comment by Joan Denoo 20 hours ago

Ruth, I was going to write you a note to see how things are progressing and found your update. I am so sorry your husband has had such a hard time with his knee replacement, Clostridium difficile, and C-Pap. Your fatigue and "feeling stupid" don't help him or you. Simple things become more complicated, such as turning off the car. I did that, too. 

Of course, you do not have leisure time or excess energy. Don't worry about Hang with Friends, We will pitch in and solve problems until you are ready to resume your excellent leadership. 

Peaceful thoughts, filled with calm images

Ruth, I was going to write you a note to see how things are progressing and found your update. I am so sorry your husband has had such a hard time with his knee replacement, Clostridium difficile, and C-Pap. The fatigue and "feeling stupid" don't help him or you. Simple things become more complicated, such as turning off the car. I did that, too. 

Of course, you do not have leisure time or excess energy. Don't worry about Hang with Friends, We will pitch in and solve problems until you are ready to resume your excellent leadership. 

Peaceful thoughts, filled with calm images

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 22 hours ago

Hi, everyone! Just a quick note to apologize for not participating for the past month. After my husband's knee replacement hospitalization he spent 4 weeks in rehab. I was driving up to visit him daily, usually getting home by dark. After 3 weeks he got Clostridium difficile, and then his leg swelled up too. He got home Wednesday, and it's been nonstop work, with visiting nurse, physical and occupational therapists, aborted unhelpful interviews with Seniors Helping Seniors, his C-Pap not working right, special c diff precautions, etc. He's managing to get around with a walker, but hasn't graduated to a cane yet.

He's managing 14 prescriptions, including warfarin every day at 5 and vancomycin every 6 hours round the clock.

The higher dose of amlodapine, blood pressure medication that I'm on, makes me very fatigued and very stupid. I frequently try to get out of my car and lock it, forgetting to turn off the engine first (you can't hear the hybrid motor). I'm lucky to read the news on the internet and maybe post about something every 4 days or so.

So it's not that I don't care about all of you, I don't have the leisure for friends right now. I will return when things calm down.

Thanks for your patience. If there's an issue, please leave me a message here and I'll see in 4 days or so. Thanks!

Comment by sk8eycat yesterday

Did you teach at Chaffey High in Ontario?  My dad went there 100 years ago.

Comment by Randall Smith yesterday

Holy smokes, Spud--you're up and out early! Good for you.

Felaine, I never saw the movie. I know many LA area schools have been featured in various movies. I taught in two junior highs and one high school in Pomona (incl Diamond Bar) from '66-'73. They hadn't changed when I visited them 10 years ago.

Comment by Idaho Spud yesterday

Good morning.  5:37 AM, and I'm off to plant in the garden.

Comment by sk8eycat yesterday

Randall, many things come to mind, especially when kids are home-schooled through 12th grade.  Dealing with crabby teachers, dealing with outstanding teachers, team sports, orchestra, chorus, class plays, dance performance, PTA nights..... Art and crafts equipment, print shop...and on an d on.

Auto shop....if you've ever seen "Corvette Summer" with Mark Hammil and Annie Potts, most of the school interiors were shot at my alma mater: Auto Shop, Burbank High School - 902 N. Third Street, Burbank, California, USA" and

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Since that film was made, the entire school was rebuilt.....I don't recognize the place AT ALL///except the bulldog mascot over the main door.  BFD.

Comment by Plinius yesterday

Saturday morning, not yet 9 o'clock. Good morning all and have a nice weekend! Has anyone heard from Carl?

Comment by Randall Smith on Thursday

Felaine, you had better stay! I miss Mindy (Booklover, who left in a huff), and Carl, who's dealing with health issues. (I wonder how he's doing?)

I have many reasons for opposing home schooling, but they aren't really "the socialization" reasons, although that's important. For one, science (my subject) has access to tools for many lab experiments--not found at home. Teachers are trained in and have greater knowledge of their subject matter. If I home schooled my kids, I would be deficient in art, history, and other areas. Plus, no sports, no school plays, no band, etc.

One of the biggest reasons parents choose home-schooling is the religion factor. They don't want their children exposed to the truth--evolution, in particular. (There are many other reasons: bullying, eliteism, antisocialism, etc.) 

Comment by Plinius on Thursday

I wasn't homeschooled but I was just as isolated as homeschoolers because of my parents' religion. I feel children should interact with all sorts of people and learn to stand their own ground. I tried to find positive sides of homeschooling to complete the picture but I didn't hear many positive comments.

Thanks Gerald, I'm glad of it. 

 

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