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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by sk8eycat on September 13, 2014 at 1:19am

Joan, it was kinda strange seeing all those wrinkled faces and bald-headed men, and remembering how they looked 50+ years ago...almost 60 years, actually. And then I walk by a mirror, and look at myself, and cringe....I lost about 40 lbs in the last couple of years, so I have the "turkey neck," and my "chipmunk cheeks" have become jowls.  Shocking.  (I have never been extremely vain, but still....I'll hear certain music, or remember a particular routine, or partying on the trains, and can't believe I'm not 18 anymore.)

Comment by sk8eycat on September 13, 2014 at 1:08am

I got a kick out of seeing Atoy Wilson again (he did most of the narration on that short video about Mabel.)  Glad to see he got rid of those extended dreadlocks.  I haven't even seen him since shortly after Mabel's memorial in 2001....when we were cleaning out her apartment here in Burbank.

About the film....I wish someone would dig up more film, and make  "Fabulous Ice Age #2"  There were so MANY outstanding principal skaters who weren't even mentioned, and who are no longer with us, but someone must have some film.  And NBC video-taped several numbers in 1959 when we were rehearsing in Sioux City....the tape was 2" wide, and the recording equipment was the size of an executive's desk.  The tape has probably been erased. 

(We were paid extra for that, but almost all the money...about 85% went to AFTRA for special one-performance union dues.  Most theatrical & broadcast unions really sucked....I think they still do.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 13, 2014 at 12:59am

Felaine, I can just feel your joy coming through your words as you describe seeing old friends and skating routines. It must make you feel really proud.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 12, 2014 at 11:23pm

Sk8eycat, that's fantastic you got to see so many people you know in that documentary.  It must have brought back many fond memories.  I'm going to watch it one of these days very soon as well.  The ice shows were always an exciting yearly excursion when I was growing up.  Enjoy Netflix while you have it.   

Comment by sk8eycat on September 12, 2014 at 10:57pm

Well, I did something I can't really afford, but I just HAD to...I signed up with Netflix (first month is free), and spent this afternoon watching "The Fabulous Ice Age."  Waaaaa-hooooo!  I'm glad I did it!  Saw more old friends than I expected.....

Gonna get the tears out of my eyes, and watch it again, but not tonight.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 12, 2014 at 4:06pm

Chris, that singer was very enjoyable to listen to.  I love a good earthy soul singer. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 12, 2014 at 3:55pm

What a voice indeed. The kind that reaches into your chest and squeezes your heart. Thanks for that post.

Carl, thanks for your post too. I love trains (never driven a car, you see) and would love to ride in one of those old cars.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:49pm

I enjoyed the cuttlefish video as well.  I had to save the picture of that cute baby.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:44pm

I agree with you peeps that there should be more celebrations and emphasis on the good happenings, and less on the bad.  I also think that when bad news is reported, it should include the odds of it happening to us. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 12, 2014 at 2:39pm

I do remember being fascinated with trains as a child, and spending quite a bit of time by the tracks.

 

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