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Comment by booklover on May 5, 2013 at 8:17am Joan, I'm glad you had no pain with your procedure, and I really hope chemo has no bad side-effects for you! Taking naps is a good thing! I take a nap a couple of times a week with a dog at my feet and a cat on me! :)
Congrats, Ian! And many more happy days to follow, I hope!
Comment by Patricia on May 5, 2013 at 12:29am Had 2 types of very aggressive breast cancer almost 8 years ago requiring full right side mastectomy, so am very diligent about getting the diagnostic mammos done on my left side, without fail. Mammo found it in the first place.
Comment by Lillie on May 5, 2013 at 12:21am Patricia and Joan, had my mammo two weeks ago with no problems, (other than gravity) thank goodness.
Comment by Lillie on May 4, 2013 at 11:53pm Sounds like a perfect day, Ian, and congratulations on your sobriety milestone. I have a few one day at a times myself.
Comment by Ian Mason on May 4, 2013 at 11:33pm Glad to hear that things are going well, Joan and that other are following your lead in regular exams.
Yes, that's the stuff. Eaten with meat and cheese mostly but nice with stews too. There are no limits except your own preference. The last time I tried to take some with me from England, airport security confiscated it. Very popular in their canteen, I bet. My daughter has been able to find an outlet in Denmark that stocks it.
Thanks for all the good wishes. It's very kind of you. Today returns to the mundane - the housework needs doing. The sun is shining so I can see all the dust indoors and the dirt on the windows but such a positive day yesterday will bear me through.
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Comment by Patricia on May 4, 2013 at 6:47pm Sounds like things are going smoothly so far Joan. Was wondering how you were feeling.
I have joined you & Melinda with having my yearly diagnostic mammo done May 1st.....come on gals.....your turn!
Comment by Joan Denoo on May 4, 2013 at 5:26pm I had a procedure done yesterday that was virtually painless; drawing a hematoma in my breast that required long needles and I got to watch on the ultra-sound equipment. I was so eager to watch, I wore myself out, turning and twisting to see what was going on. It was odd watching the pool of blood disappear through the needle into vials. Not a bit of pain but I imagined the sucking sound of the Titanic going underwater. There was no sound; I just imagined it.
Laura and Laurie went with me and kept me cheered up. I came home and slept the rest of the day.
Chemo starts next week.
Comment by Joan Denoo on May 4, 2013 at 5:15pm Ian, I respect your life's journey, and your ability to overcome an addiction. The brain is a difficult thing to master when it acts against your interests. Congratulations.
Your day with your daughter and her friend sounds very special and may you have many more such days.
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