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Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller 14 hours ago. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by sk8eycat Dec 12. 11 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

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Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by booklover on August 16, 2014 at 9:13am

Randy, I'm so glad Dot was found safe and sound! 

I'm with everyone on the privacy thing.  I told my husband that we are either putting up a 6 ft. wooden fence on the side of our house in the backyard, or building a screened-in porch where we can pull shades down on the side with the neighbors next door.  Our backyard is pretty private except on that one side.

Comment by Plinius on August 16, 2014 at 8:12am

No tag or chip, Randall?

Comment by Randall Smith on August 16, 2014 at 7:42am

I live in the flat land part of Indiana, but S. Ind. is hilly.

Felaine, you mentioned Florida insects--don't forget "no see-ums". They bite and cause one to scratch like crazy.

Mindy, Dot ran off while I was working on my 4 acres of prairie grass on the family farm. I was frantic in trying to find her. After 2 hours, I gave up. Checked my phone messages as soon as I got home, and voila, the "dog pound" had her!! Someone called and they came and got her. Whew. I guess after only 2 weeks, she wasn't as attached to me as I thought. But, she stays home, outdoors all day and night here at home. No fence necessary--yet, actually, never.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 16, 2014 at 7:13am

I like my privacy also.  That's why I'm trying to find a place in the country that I can afford (and that's warm).

Comment by Plinius on August 16, 2014 at 6:01am

Welcome in the neighborhood, Carl! I won't electrify the fence!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 16, 2014 at 4:53am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 16, 2014 at 4:46am

Chris, there's an old saying, "Good fences make good neighbors."  I sure agree with that.  Humans are very territorial.  The picture you posted is a common sight in big cities.  Having a little niche fenced off like the one in your photo is practically like owning sacred ground. 

I like the private and hidden aspect of your apartment door.  That would suit me just fine. 

Comment by Plinius on August 16, 2014 at 1:26am

Wonderful view, Felaine! And I mustn't think like a Dutch who'd put up fences and hedges and gates to keep private and common apart. The way we live is quite different! This is not where I live, but close by. My apartment is invisible from the street and you can only reach it through three doors and a lift, after a long search you'll find an unmarked door with a spyhole. Privacy, and I feel comfortable with it. Perhaps I am Dutch...

Comment by booklover on August 15, 2014 at 9:49pm
I love Chicago. All of my relatives on my Mom's side lived there when I was a kid. I always said I'd live there, but life happened. Now it's my daughter who wants to move there. I hope she does in a few years! It's such a neat city!
Comment by sk8eycat on August 15, 2014 at 9:46pm

OMG!   I hated Florida!  We played Miami Beach and Tampa....both so humid that there would be 3 ft of fog on the ice when we went out for the opening number.  And in Tampa we had to check our boots for palmetto bugs and other ickies before we put our skates on.

But the worst was playing outdoor arenas (fairgrounds) in the Midwest.  Huge flocks of June bugs and other uglies would fly into the overhead lights and die....on the ice.  We had to keep on smiling and skating.

 

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