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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 22. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:17am

I also like my music so that I can hear it without straining.  I like having music on when cleaning as well, usually some upbeat jazz.  I couldn't live without my music.  Jazz and classical make up the majority of my listening, but I have many other varied and quirky musical avenues too. 

I subscribe to commercial-free Pandora Radio and have found a lot of new music that I like listening to.  Lately I've been listening to a lot of South American and Spanish contemporary ballads.  Even though I don't speak or understand Spanish, they are very beautiful and romantic. 

Comment by booklover on September 30, 2014 at 8:16am
Randy, that's why I hesitate to get another dog. I love them so much, but my house is so much cleaner, even with 3 cats. BTW, Dale is at the vet. Today he gets an ultrasound and x-rays. I'll let you guys know what happens.
Comment by Plinius on September 30, 2014 at 8:12am

Earplugs don't help, Joan, when you want to sleep and the basses interfere with your heart rhythm. But luckily it's only some five days a year. Normally I love music, and also silence. When I'm home alone I very often concentrate on things I've heard and enjoy them again in silence - music, sounds, poems.

I like the Da Vince text very much, Ian!

Comment by Randall Smith on September 30, 2014 at 7:44am

I'm lucky not to have any nearby neighbors. I have the radio on all the time, both indoors and out (mostly classical).

Speaking of dusting, I've had to triple my cleaning duties due to having a dog inside much of the time. She (Dot) shakes, rolls, and scratches (fleas?) a lot. I think it's a cause of my throat tickle and cough. Ugh.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 1:57am

I can see you jiving with your dust cloth, shining wood and metal to a high gloss, and pushing that Hoover with such vigor, no dust mite has a chance to survive. I need to dust ... haven't worked up the ambition. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 30, 2014 at 1:20am

No I don't, Joan. Living in a flat, there's not much point. About an hour every 14 days doesn't seem too much. It's during the day, not late at night. I do have tinnitus, as a result of working with large machines for several years so I restrict my exposure to loud noise but I can't live without music of some sort. My everyday listening is more classical and jazz than rock these days but some electric guitar is still wonderful.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maD5k-vUI4o

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 12:46am

@Chris, I feel for you living near a "festival" street. Just too much commotion. Do you wear earplugs for those events? 

@Ian, do you keep your windows closed to spare the sound bothering neighbors? Hope you aren't hard of hearing. That could create some problem. 

Spokane has a powwow every year in our Riverfront Park. I like to stand near the big drums where several people are drumming. I can feel the vibration of the drum through my feet. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 29, 2014 at 11:36pm

Oh dear, I'm one of the "noisy". I usually listen to loud music while I do my housework, quite often The Who.

This popped up on FB and I thought I'd share.

Comment by booklover on September 29, 2014 at 8:41pm
Thanks, Grinning!
Comment by Grinning Cat on September 29, 2014 at 8:03pm

I'm both annoyed at and mystified by drivers who loudly share their music with the entire neighborhood. If it's disturbingly loud to people driving or walking in the same block, it's got to be deafening to the driver (and anyone else in the car)! How can they hear anything going on around them?

Mindy, I hope for the best for Dale!

 

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