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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 22. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 2, 2014 at 8:34am

I don't know if it's actually true, but I read somewhere once that the average life span of 14 years for cats is tweaked by the fact that so many cats die of non-natural causes like collisions with vehicles or predators. While 14 is the actual average, it's not at all unusual for a cat to live to 19 or 20.

Comment by booklover on October 2, 2014 at 8:15am

Chris, where did I miss that you now have 2 adults to take care of? That must be so stressful!  I was thinking you were going to get a break!  I'm sorry you have to have more on your plate.

They did an x-ray and ultrasound on Dale, and he didn't eat anything he wasn't supposed to.  They said he's just old.  Well our last cat lived to be 19 1/2, so I didn't think 13 1/2 was old.  The vet said 14 was the average age for cats to die. He just licks gravy off food and drinks water, but he seems happy.

That is a cool picture, Chris.  I know what you mean about not wanting to live in the brightest spot though.

Have a good Thursday, Friends. :)

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 8:08am

I love them too Randall, but I still wish I didn't live in the brightest spot in the Netherlands...

Comment by Randall Smith on October 2, 2014 at 7:44am

Chris, I love nighttime photos. Benelux countries with a little England I recognize.

Joan, I always enjoy reading your reminisces. I'm not quite as old as you, but it brings back childhood memories.

Carl, great autumn photos.

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 2, 2014 at 5:49am

Mindy, I'm so glad your daughter surprised you.  Sounds like a wonderful day.  Also like the encouraging news about Dale. 

Carl, thanks for the beautiful October forest.  I love forests.

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 5:39am

And I really put the lights out!

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 1:28am

Have a good trip, Ian! I begin to understand you better now that we've got two adults to take care of. There are good sides but it wears you out.

I'm glad Dale is doing better! I get the feeling he ate something that didn't agree with him - a piece of a toy perhaps? Then you get such a pattern.

Light grey autumn here and still high temperatures. But I feel ready for colder weather.

Comment by booklover on October 1, 2014 at 11:12pm
I love the saying you put up, Ian. :)
Safe trip!
Interesting, Joan! I love to hear stories of how people live!
Carl, I love autumn! It's my favorite time of year. I love that we live where we get all four seasons.
Dale drank again today, and licks all the gravy off of canned food. As long as he continues to do that, I will be happy. For a while he wasn't eating or drinking.
My daughter skipped class, and came home for the day with her cat, Lucy. Our cat Dora hates Lucy. She was so mad at my daughter for bringing Lucy here. Lol.
We went and used a coupon to get a few things for my daughter at Bath & Bodyworks, and then I bought her lunch at Kobe, which is a Japanese fast food place. I had already eaten, so we brought it home. Then she and I and all the cats took a nap. Later, we went and filled her car up with gas, and got dinner and some things she needed at her apartment, at the local grocery store. We all had dinner together at home. Then she, and Lucy!, went back to their apartment. She just needed a mental-health day being at home. And I loved her surprising me!
Comment by Ian Mason on October 1, 2014 at 11:00pm

Comment by Ian Mason on October 1, 2014 at 10:59pm

That looks like a really substantial pro-democracy movement building up in Hong Kong. I think Carl is right that Bejing has a terrible record as regards such things. The West will, of course, only make a token protest if shooting starts.

Glad to hear that Dale is perking up a little, Mindy.

Autumn. "Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness". Every season has its beauties.

I'm off to England again tomorrow. A niece getting married and things to decide and sign about my dement Mum. To be honest, I'm getting tired of airports and 'planes. Although I've enjoyed this year's holidays and family visits, I feel that I've reached my limit for the time being.

Be well, everyone.

 

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